It is more about mixing with a better and nicer class of person ----- IQ obviously , command of language and culture .what have you got (tourist wise) that we haven't cave dude?
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Mostly we are too polite to laugh at you or overtly patronise , and we can be most helpful and hospitable to those that are willing to learn and we refrain from preaching at the less fortunate . Mostly .
Perhaps you can also tap into our sense of developed humour and even find elegance and intended humour in this post .
But perhaps that is expecting too much .