Why doesn't he ask his spouse why she felt she NEEDED "government validation"? According to him, she forced him into a civil marriage he didn't want.
Strawman. I told you I was married to have this discussion, I'm not afraid of it. However, I never said how we got married.
If you want to post this as a question rather than a strawman accusation then I would be happy to address it, but I'm not addressing anything that's put in such a bull manner.
It's not a Strawman. You loathe those seeking civil marriage...the same civil marriage you take advantage of with the excuse "my wife made me do it". Are you as contemptuous of your own as you are of others?
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