Silhouette
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I have already said that having two opposite gender parents is clearly not a necessity. Plenty of children have been raised by single parents, whether through dissolution of the parents' relationship or death of a parent, and those children have turned out fine in general.
But you see, the marriage contract was conceived of...as...a....REMEDY...for those unfortunate exceptions you mentioned. Children suffer all the time. That doesn't mean you create statutes that institutionalize their sufferings!
Marriage means and meant, for thousands of years "a relief to that suffering we know kids experience when either a mother or father lacks in their daily lives". That specific contract was created FOR children SO THAT they could have BOTH parents in their lives. The exceptions you cite are like saying "Well this child needs more calcium in their diet, so instead of providing them with milk or dark leafy greens, we'll just let them eat chalk or limestone dust. It's all the same to them."
The nuances of having a mother and father in their lives means the necessity. And those nuances can be inferred from reading this massive study of the well being of young adults reporting on the childhood they had still fresh in their minds: PRINCE'S TRUST 2010 YOUTH INDEX SURVEY on girls lacking a mother or boys lacking a father.. (female or male role models respectively)
And, the misery reported by children as young adults now about being raised in gay homes specifically.. (link in my signature..)
So we have Montrovant's singular opinion that a mother and father aren't a necessity to kids, vs the BILLIONS of people worldwide who avidly and rabidly assert the opposite...
I offer that most of the people who supported so-called "gay marriage" had not thought through the "deprived of a mother or father for life" angle with respect to the children involved in those brand new types of "marriage".. Not the least of which were Justices Kennedy, Breyer, Ginsburg, Kagan and Sotomayor...all of which enjoyed having a mother and father BOTH in THEIR lives...
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