BULLDOG
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I know lots of people who felt exactly the same way until they lost a job, or had some other setback that they had no control over. Just because you are lucky enough to have not had that kind of reversal doesn't mean that you are smarter or work harder. It just means you are luckier.
If you can keep a roof over your head, have clean water and food, you are in good shape compared to a lot of the world. Sometimes you just have to make sacrifices (smaller house, cheaper cell phone, 1 TV instead of 4 etc.) There are people that are genuinely hurting, there are others that have put themselves in their own predicament....
Of course there are some who put themselves in a bad situation. Always have been. always will be. I just don't see those as the majority of the hurting.
I think a lot of it depends on your life experiences. Who you know that you are closest to. Most people I know cry poor, but, really could be quite well off if they weren't buying their kids everything in the world, and putting them in colleges they can't afford etc.
Again, I know plenty of them too. Those aren't the majority of people who depend on social programs.
I'll be honest, I don't know the people that are collecting welfare etc. I don't much about the system and what it takes to participate - you always hear about the people working the system, never those that truly need it. I am not doubting there are those that truly need assistance.....
I know a few. Good people who always worked at least as hard as I did. The bottom fell for all of us at about the same time. Luckily I recovered. It wasn't because I was better or more conscientious than them. I just happened to be in the right place at the right time.