I have a daughter that would disagree with your first sentence. White people spout off racist stuff to her all the time not knowing her background.It's not that simple man. Racists don't just come out to other white people and start spouting off racist rhetoric. It doesn't work that way.
The vast majority of racist people I know are old. Like 60 + years old. I'm not going to be able to get those tigers to change their stripes.
It's not something I ever hear normally, from people my age. Once in a while you'll hear an old person say something racist ... but you just roll your eyes because you know you're not going to get them to change their mind anyway.
I don't hang out with hillbillies or low-lives so I don't know how they deal with each other.
There in lies your specific problem. You think its sufficient to simply roll your eyes. This is why I know whites are not willing to do what it takes to end their collective racism. If they were truly commited to ending racism this response would not be sufficient.
It's one of those things where they came from a different time period. My grandparents are in their eighties. You really think my talking back to them when they say something uncool is going to change 80+ years of their way of thinking? Even if by some miracle it did, what difference would it make? They're powerless middle-class white people who are going to die within the next ten years anyway.
Stop making excuses!
Millennials are just as racist as their parents
White millennials are just as racist as their grandparents
https://www.theroot.com/stop-portraying-white-millennials-as-less-racist-than-t-1793539084
Millennials Are More Racist Than They Think
The hidden racism of young white Americans
In the Age of Trump White Millennials Shatter Idea That Young People Are Progressive
Who the hell do you think you're talking to? Start doing the work needed to end white racism. Its isn't going to end when old white people die because old white people are not the only racists.
That has not been my experience. Maybe in the sticks it's different.