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I had around the same amount of sexual education myself, although one substitute teacher did manage to sneak in the subject of contraception and our home room teacher had a little speech about not trying to presume too much from getting a hug.
I also was not only restricted in the absence of a sexual education by limited human anatomy, but in my language classes we got to write dissertations on problematic or controversial topics which would pretty much include the wide-spread social absence of sexual orientation and sexual gender education. Those dissertations were never only to be referred in relation to the school and the teaching methods (which largely evaded the students' minds as a long established system of 100 years old), but to the situation in the whole nation. So although our education was limited, it was determined to provide indirectly and at a long term development to each students' individual situation.
Cool. I'm a subscriber of the Salon newsletter, and I got this in my email box today, I thought it was appropriate, especially in light of the issues that many teens face, and how having online friends can help...
The Internet saved my life: At 13, I told one person I wanted to kill myself—my best friend, whom I had never met
In the very same Salon email, there was also also an article detailing the dark side of intergenerationality, from a woman who had suffered child sexual abuse and wrote a memoir about her life, including that element:
My husband wouldn’t read my memoir: “It’s just too painful”
The article itself doesn't specify who did the abusing, but another article I found does- like most cases, it was someone within her circle, in this case a cousin...
Memoir 'The Telling' makes sense of Zoe Zolbrod's childhood sexual abuse
The article actually raises a really interesting point which I think is leading to a general comprehension not only of the necessary education that we all require to live quality lives but also why education doesn't come to be obvious as the fundamental conduct for life as we live in such a complex world, both or children and adults.
Leigh: Nearly ten years later, I was living with my abusive boyfriend, waitressing in Albuquerque, New Mexico. I was seriously depressed again, taking medication in hopes that if I could just “fix” what was inside me, our relationship would also be fixed.
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David: I remember you attributing things to a “chemical imbalance” and not really understanding what that meant at all.
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Leigh: For some reason, I was like, this is really dire and I know the solution… the solution is to end things. [...] I needed to be seen,
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David: Which I think is probably frequently the case. People just want to be heard. And I think at that age, you don’t know what it is. [...] I think a lot of kids in that situation say, “Something is wrong inside of me and it’s been that way for a long time and I don’t see it ending.” Probably the kids that end up going through with it most of the time just say, “It’s felt like this forever and I can’t feel this way anymore and I don’t know what it is.”
I think we can all agree that plenty of mistakes, very grave mistakes, have been made throughout history from its very origin, thousands of years ago. Even after civilization has been built and developed for so long, we still get, at the least, some media informed reference to criminal activity happening somewhere, although at this point the message is usually very politically convoluted and generally confusing for the lay public...
I'm not sure what you mean when you mention "criminal activity happening somewhere". You mention a lot of other stuff, but I think I'll just start with this...
Leigh: Do you remember what your screenname was?
David: I think the standard one was ITWBaker, standing for "Into the Woods" Baker. [...] And what was yours?
Leigh: At one point it was Drama Goil, like with a New York accent.
I think the close suicide of the New York Drama Goil being prevented by the "Into the Woods" Baker empathy somewhat elucidates the problem's reach as well as the problem's solution.
Not sure how it elucidates the problem's reach (and how are you defining the problem?). It seems clear that the author thinks she may well have saved her life though, so it certainly helped with that...