mdk
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We lived together for 11 years before we got hitched. It would have been way earlier if circumstances permitted but it every couple should live together before they marry.
Did you marry for the commitment, the advantages (tax etc.) or all of the mentioned (and more...)?
Any plans for kids or do you already have any?
It was partially for the commitment and partially for the advantages. We covered all of our bases legally beforehand but power of attorneys and wills can be contested in court. The only way to ensure that our families couldn't meddle in our affairs if something dreadful happened was to marry. I am not saying they would but fighting over estates has turned many families upside. Gosh, that sounds super cynical. lol
Despite being the last male of the family line, we are never going to have children. I have scores of nieces and nephews I get to spoil rotten and send them home afterwards.
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