kaz
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- Dec 1, 2010
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Did my stint. At 77 years old I am out of the miserable rotten rat race. I started working at age 23 after graduating with a degree. The best info I can give a newbie is to never settle for the job you have because your employer doesn't care about you in the end. Be ready to walk away at any second into a better opportunity. Learning about the business is great n all but you aren't there for the business...you are there for yourself and to gain capital. Being loyal will only work against you.
It has nothing to do with being loyal.
The more you learn about the functions of a job, the better employee you will be to anybody.
Employers can be held liable by what they say to the next potential employer. The key (and legal) question most experienced employers ask is "If I decide not to hire X, and you have a job opening, would you consider hiring them again?"
If the answer is no, then the future employer knows something is wrong there. While the previous employer can't legally get into specifics, the future employer understands that the applicant has some sort of issues.
Of course if the answer is yes, then the potential employer knows that the applicant left on good terms; gave proper notice; didn't make a scene while leaving; did a good job while he or she was working there.
I don't believe in closing doors or burning bridges because I have no control over my attitude. I believe the road you leave behind is the road you pave in front of you.
I'm not an employer, but I am a landlord, and I just had another landlord contact me about a past tenant of mine. She asked the same question "If I decide not to give X this apartment, would you consider renting to her again if you have an available unit?"
I don't think she is going to get the apartment.
Yep. No matter how much I hated a job or my manager, when I left, I said not a peep of negativity. Would have done zero for me. And they would have blown it off so it would have accomplished zero. And I always worked up until the day I walked out the door as if I were going no where. People have said to me before after I gave notice that if they didn't know I was leaving, they would have no idea I was leaving. I took a lot of pride in that