Si modo
Diamond Member
Blow me, Sky!If something hurts, I say ouch. del didn't correct me and tell me he said "blow me" in fun. He didn't. Nobody talks to me like that in RL and I won't encourage it here.
I have no control over others. I value emotional honesty. When something hurts, I say so.
I'd like to get to the point where I do not retaliate when I'm hurt, the way I did with del. Retaliating is costly.
Then you need to learn how to laugh sky. Its called banter...and you roll with it.
Ive not spoken to hortysir...but am pretty sure he said blow me as a joke and i am pretty sure he thinks me biting his dick in response is a joke and funny as hell too. Even if he is not saying it as a joke....its pretty damn funny....and i answered in kind as i said i would. I am not offended or upset about what he said in the slightest.
Hortysir is joking with you. Het humor, I guess. del was NOT joking with me. NOBODY talks to me like that in RL. He was angry at me when he said it. Hortysir is not angry with you.
Good for you that you weren't offended. del intended to hurt me. That's completely different than you and hortysir joking around.