TheProgressivePatriot
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You have dealt with those issue? Bullshit!! And you wont because you have nothing. You have been running from them ever since you opened those doors and I suspect that you regret it now.Not only have I challenged your argument, I have destroyed it. Unfortunately your cognitive limitations don't allow you to see that. Or, you are too dishonest and entrenched to admit it
You can continue to dismiss my assessment of you that documents all of you bigoted, bizarre, and unfounded claims about gay people and same sex marriage. but that does not change that fact that you have painted yourself into a corner with your claims about gay parenting, societal decline and procreation-and the double standards between heterosexual and homosexual couple that you have endorsed.
You can call those minor issues but they speak to your deep seated bias and your motive in pushing this ridiculous gender role theory. The fact is that you are too much of a coward to deal with those issues and anyone who is watch knows that except your fuck buddy Bob.
Nothing but spin and bluster. My point stands.
The crux of your argument is that the "restrictions" were arbitrary. Yet you have admitted that in the past, the same past that the institution of marriage was developed in, that that structure of marriage, with gender roles worked.
"Works" debunked the crux of your argument, the "arbitrary".
That only I see the issue this way, is not evidence that it is wrong. Obviously.
Regarding this gender role thing, I have established that it is absurd on its face and that absolutely no one is buying you claim that gender role differences, real or imagined, have any bearing on who cannot or should not marry .
The issues of family functioning, the nurturing of children, and negative effects on society is inextricably tied to your gender role theory and the issue of whether the band on same sex marriage were arbitrary or if there was some rational reason for them.
In order for you to show that “differences between men and women” provide a rational basis for bans on same sex marriage, you have to show that 1) the negative effects and outcomes that you allege are real, and 2) that they are the result of gender role conflicts.
I am quite sure that you will even be able to deal with #1 leave alone # 2 . You have a real problem slick. To reiterate, in order to show that gender role differences provide a rational basis for bans on same sex marriage, you have to demonstrate a negative outcome related to those differences.
That is your challenge. Deal with it or go away. Check mate!
Not bad. I accept. *
1. Lack of a father as a provider, means the mother and children starve, or at least are malnourished and die of disease, or at least have miserable lives and grow into stunted, less productive members of society.
2. During the vast majority of the time frame we are talking about, the greater physical strength of men, made them economically necessary for any family to thrive if not survive. Even today, in the Information Age, two incomes are better than one. Unfortunately.
*footnote. It is interesting that after only a month of badgering, that you finally dipped your toe in the concept of actual debate, instead of just jumping back and forth from Assertions and Dodges. I wish I could give you a Good For You, but unfortunately so far, so few liberals engage at all, that I don't have enough data to judge you by.
This is a joke right?? What century are you living in? We are not hunter- gatherers anymore and women can earn their own money and fend for themselves.....E
Dude. You challenged me to back up my position on gender roles being the foundation of the structure of marriage.
Any discussion on the reasons for the development of the structure of marriage, would focus mostly on the time period when that structure of marriage was developed.
Obviously.
But even so, I did not limit my answers to that time frame, but included references to more recent time periods. So, your lack of a seriously response is disappointing.
I challenged you to back up your position that bans on same sex marriage were not arbitrary and served some rational purpose in the here and now and you responded with pure bizarre bullshit. But I anticipated this sort of crap about tradition and the history and structure of marriage . It is not relevant. The only thing that is relevant is the current state of society
You are saying that laws against same sex marriage were not arbitrary because they were based on how marriage was intended to be and traditional gender roles. But that does not change the fact that -that has no relevance to how things actually are now. I would have like to hear someone make that insane argument in one of the cases leading up to and including Obergefell. They would have been laughed out of court!
I know what will come next. You will say that changes should have been legislated rather than litigated. Your motive is clear. You know that litigating on the past nature of gender roles will fail so you want to avoid that and bog it down in legislation. You ignore the fact that states failed to act and were in fact going in the other direction by passing restrictions on marriage. You will come up with any horseshit that you can come up with to ensure that marriage equality is never a reality.
It ignores the well-established principal of judicial review and the fact that same sex marriage would not have been the law of the land for another 50 years or more.
And what 'references to more recent periods' are you talking about. ? You are stuck in the past. You can't show that there is a rational reason for restricting marriage to opposite sex couples based on how things were with references to women not being able to fend for themselves and starving babies . Completely insane! Another major FAIL!
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