Seawytch
Information isnt Advocacy
People are not going to stop using their religion to hate. My recommendation is that gay people marry in the Unitarian Church, where they don't have to deal with the haters.
Sure they will eventually. There has been like a 30% increase in gay friendly churches in the last 10 years.
More gay people are coming out which means more families becoming straight allies and wanting their churches to embrace them.