You see. This is exactly what I meant when I said that your “one man-one woman” trope is just the symptom. It’s clear that your hate and disregard for gay people runs much deeper than can be explained simply by an appeal to tradition logical fallacy. Indeed, you are displaying a callous disregard for gay people and seemingly do not even afford them the right to happiness and fulfillment.
Proof is when you keep repeating things like gays could have married someone of the opposite sex and that the law says nothing about being sexually or romantically attracted . Either you do not have the capacity to understand how hurtful that is or you don’t care. In either case you are seriously fucked up in the head. Maybe in an era of arranged marriages when no one had a reasonable expectation of fulfillment and happinessClearly you do not even regard them as fully human.
I don’t know what to attribute it to but some things come to mind. Maybe you never found happiness and fulfillment and are resentful of others who have, especially those that are part of a group who are easy to vilify.
Maybe you harbor some unexpressed religious beliefs
Maybe you have issues with your own sexuality and need to put as much distance as possible between you and “them”
Maybe you are threatened by the changes in society that you don’t understand and can’t adjust to.
That last point may partially explain your clinging to the one man-one woman thing. However, the fact that you have been educated about the damage that is done by the discrimination that you advocate makes it clear to me that there has got to be more to it than just a need to cling to tradition.
How can you say I hate gays when I don’t deny them the right to marry?
You make no sense.