Silhouette
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I grew up in a hardcore Christian home and community. I can tell you from long sad experience that most Christians do not make the distinction between sin and sinner. All I am is an atheist and 3/4 of my family has not spoken to me for over 20 years. The rest are hateful as hell all because I decided I no longer wanted to attend church three time s a week. Don't try to tell how Christians are, I know how they are when they drop all pretense of public piety.
Your unfortunate and wayward example does not a religion make. I feel sorry for you. I grew up similarly but learned not to hate an entire group just because of the sins of two or three of them against me personally.
Don't know. But "gayness" is a behavior, not a state of being. Perhaps those Christians just couldn't bear the stress of seeing their child's behavior destroying their lives.Well that's awesome, try calling some of your fellow Christians out for hypocrisy and see how fast they turn on you. My case is far from unique, the number of gay people I have met that can never go home again is far too common. What kind of indoctrination could make anyone turn their backs on their own child?
Death from HIV/AIDS is virtually a given in a sexually-compulsive homosexual's life. Up to 30% of gay males have had sex with over 1,000 men by the time they're in their 30s or so. Up to half of those sexual encounters were anonymous: putting them at the highest risk of any human being to die early from AIDS. Most gay men have been molested as kids and bear wounds that force them to act out sexually and compulsively in many other self destructive ways. Daily watching and even "supporting" your child killing themselves is a serious mind-fuck. Counseling is the answer but few addicts, including sex addicts, ever stay with it long enough for a cure:
ATLANTA [2005 Clinical Psychiatry News] -- Substance abuse is pervasive among gay men and is so intricately intertwined with epidemics of depression, partner abuse, and childhood sexual abuse that adequately addressing one issue requires attention to the others as well, said Ronald Stall, Ph.D., chief of prevention research for the division of HIV/AIDS prevention at the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, Atlanta...
Counselors will often tell family members of other types of addicts to distance themselves too. It's not always about the addict. Families are destroyed by addiction and so they must in the end see to their own sanity and needs. In fact, the addict is often an attention-glutton to the complete exclusion of other family members and their needs. Al-Anon teaches families of addicts to distance themselves more than Christianity does.
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