Why are so many young women attracted to bad boys?

[thanatos144]

Except they have egos and can't.

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And can't what?

My next question is, then what? How long do you ignore her and what are you waiting for? Do you think she is just going to lose control and jump your bones? Ha-ha! So . . . what is the next step after the "ignore" period.

You ignore her till she makes the move. The key is not to be a dick . Oh I should clarify that. To ignore I mean don't attempt to show any sexual interest in her. I don't mean act like she doesn't exist. Women need a challenge for some reason

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Hmm. Sounds kind of like a way to avoid rejection . . . I still don't know what you would be waiting for. If I don't think a guy is interested, I move on. Otherwise, you might come across looking like a stalker or something.

Have you been married long? Maybe the last time you were trying to get with a girl, it was a very young girl, is why I ask. Most mature women would not appreciate being "played" like that. You are either interested or not.

Sure you dont....

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Look buddy, you get to be a certain age and you grow tired of silly little juvenile games, you know?

That's true for most of grow out if it. then it becomes s different game. Did you know women judge looks of men far more harshly the men judge women? a study was done and that was found ...m need to find the study not sure if I do if I will be able to link it .

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[ChrisL]

Of course attracting confident and mature women is simply. Keeping them attracted depends on the individual woman, of course, but each has a key to her heart.

Mine is funny guys. I love funny guys. I hate rude and disgusting guys.

 

[ChrisL]

And can't what?

My next question is, then what? How long do you ignore her and what are you waiting for? Do you think she is just going to lose control and jump your bones? Ha-ha! So . . . what is the next step after the "ignore" period.

You ignore her till she makes the move. The key is not to be a dick . Oh I should clarify that. To ignore I mean don't attempt to show any sexual interest in her. I don't mean act like she doesn't exist. Women need a challenge for some reason

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Hmm. Sounds kind of like a way to avoid rejection . . . I still don't know what you would be waiting for. If I don't think a guy is interested, I move on. Otherwise, you might come across looking like a stalker or something.

Have you been married long? Maybe the last time you were trying to get with a girl, it was a very young girl, is why I ask. Most mature women would not appreciate being "played" like that. You are either interested or not.

Sure you dont....

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Look buddy, you get to be a certain age and you grow tired of silly little juvenile games, you know?

That's true for most of grow out if it. then it becomes s different game. Did you know women judge looks of men far more harshly the men judge women? a study was done and that was found ...m need to find the study not sure if I do if I will be able to link it .

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I don't believe it one bit. I think women are far more open minded and much less visual in what is acceptable.

 

[thanatos144]

I find this behavior extremely annoying personally. I think there are way too many men who are nothing more than overgrown 16-year-olds. In fact, I would go so far as to say that my son is more mature and better behaved than some men I have encountered on these forums who claim to be in their 40s, 50s, or even older.

And there it is.... because men don't act how you think they should they are children. What would you think if I said way to many women need to stop being vain ?

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[Gracie]

She told me I had a lot to offer, that I had so many good traits, that I was a gentle sweetheart, and that she cares for and likes me too

That sentence is supposed end..."just not in that way.' Have you ever had that conversation with a woman before that ended well? It might be a bit awkward for a minute but it's best to just move on.

What's really frustrating is that I was texting with a young woman [with a boyfriend] who appeared to be sad, anxious, and was giving me signals that maybe, maybe, she cared for me. I can share it all here, sans personal info, and you can tell me exactly where I went wrong if I did.

Basically we had been texting on Facebook for a while and working together as friends and buying each other coffee and then she gave me her number and we were texting a lot on the phone and then she called me late last night at 1am and told me she really liked and cared about me and felt she could trust me to vent her personal issues with. As the conversations unfolded [we had been texting back and forth during the day and evening] I let slip that I cared about her and had feelings for her. I really do in spite of her having a boyfriend and being miserable. Now it's like it all stopped, and I'm feeling a little hurt like what did I do? I was just being honest with my feelings. We've been working over a year together as friends. I feel hurt, like I did something wrong and I don't know what. I texted her again and asked how she was feeling [last night she had shared with me that she suffers from an eating disorder and was maybe going back to the psych ward for bulimia], but everything since I let her know that I cared for her and her health has since been ignored. It just... hurts, and I feel confused. She told me I had a lot to offer, that I had so many good traits, that I was a gentle sweetheart, and that she cares for and likes me too. I...

My first piece of advice: don't ever be the rebound guy. I think a woman needs time after a break up to stand on her own two feet before jumping into another relationship. Otherwise, it could nag in the back of her mind if she left the relationship for the right reasons. Second, she obviously likes and trusts you, and now that you revealed your true feelings, it could have impacted her in a few ways...she feels guilty for confiding in someone who might be viewed as having ulterior motives, she is afraid of misleading you, she feels awkward if there is no chemistry. She probably respects you a lot, and now has concerns about losing a friend/confidant.

She's still in a relationship with her boyfriend. He's just immature and treats her like crap. I figured if I gently pursued her heart, maybe a desired outcome could happen.

I'm just confused because I'm getting very mixed signals, and I feel hurt that it's like all communication just got cut. If she wasn't interested, why would she get so personal with the details of her life, giving me her number without me even asking and then texting me in the middle of the night?

Because she thinks of you as a friend or like an older brother she can rely on to vent her frustrations on. Dude, she is just not in to you. Sorry to be blunt, but I will not enable your pain further thinking you have a chance with her. You don't. You are in the friend stage and will probably stay there if she doesn't get too freaked out now that you told her how you feel about her.

Well said.

Exactly. she was letting him know his good qualities...but...not for her or what she was looking for HERSELF in a man. My advice is stop texting her, stop pming her, stop everything. Go back to being co workers or whatever you two were and let her go her own way..and you go yours. But YOU run the other way.

 

[thanatos144]

Of course attracting confident and mature women is simply. Keeping them attracted depends on the individual woman, of course, but each has a key to her heart.

Mine is funny guys. I love funny guys. I hate rude and disgusting guys.

Is a man rude of he doesn't dote on you? Is he rude if he doesn't treat you like something more special then him?

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[ChrisL]

I find this behavior extremely annoying personally. I think there are way too many men who are nothing more than overgrown 16-year-olds. In fact, I would go so far as to say that my son is more mature and better behaved than some men I have encountered on these forums who claim to be in their 40s, 50s, or even older.

And there it is.... because men don't act how you think they should they are children. What would you think if I said way to many women need to stop being vain ?

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Ignoring someone that you like IS childish. There are WORSE things you can be than vain.

 

[Pogo]

You ignore her till she makes the move. The key is not to be a dick . Oh I should clarify that. To ignore I mean don't attempt to show any sexual interest in her. I don't mean act like she doesn't exist. Women need a challenge for some reason

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Hmm. Sounds kind of like a way to avoid rejection . . . I still don't know what you would be waiting for. If I don't think a guy is interested, I move on. Otherwise, you might come across looking like a stalker or something.

Have you been married long? Maybe the last time you were trying to get with a girl, it was a very young girl, is why I ask. Most mature women would not appreciate being "played" like that. You are either interested or not.

Sure you dont....

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Look buddy, you get to be a certain age and you grow tired of silly little juvenile games, you know?

That's true for most of grow out if it. then it becomes s different game. Did you know women judge looks of men far more harshly the men judge women? a study was done and that was found ...m need to find the study not sure if I do if I will be able to link it .

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I don't believe it one bit. I think women are far more open minded and much less visual in what is acceptable.

Hmm.... dunno about that. Men judge women far more on physical appearance, but women tend to notice everything visual -- in both themselves and us.

Then there's that smell thing. Y'all need to switch that off. It ain't fair.

 

[ChrisL]

Of course attracting confident and mature women is simply. Keeping them attracted depends on the individual woman, of course, but each has a key to her heart.

Mine is funny guys. I love funny guys. I hate rude and disgusting guys.

Is a man rude of he doesn't dote on you? Is he rude if he doesn't treat you like something more special then him?

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That depends. What do you consider "doting?"

 

[ChrisL]

Can't say I wouldn't like being doted on. However, a door mat is another story entirely. I am a woman who has a very strong personality, and I wouldn't want to be with a person that I would unintentionally walk all over, so I need a strong personality to counter mine. I wouldn't want to treat anyone like crap because they might be "weaker" than me.

 

[thanatos144]

You ignore her till she makes the move. The key is not to be a dick . Oh I should clarify that. To ignore I mean don't attempt to show any sexual interest in her. I don't mean act like she doesn't exist. Women need a challenge for some reason

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Hmm. Sounds kind of like a way to avoid rejection . . . I still don't know what you would be waiting for. If I don't think a guy is interested, I move on. Otherwise, you might come across looking like a stalker or something.

Have you been married long? Maybe the last time you were trying to get with a girl, it was a very young girl, is why I ask. Most mature women would not appreciate being "played" like that. You are either interested or not.

Sure you dont....

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Look buddy, you get to be a certain age and you grow tired of silly little juvenile games, you know?

That's true for most of grow out if it. then it becomes s different game. Did you know women judge looks of men far more harshly the men judge women? a study was done and that was found ...m need to find the study not sure if I do if I will be able to link it .

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I don't believe it one bit. I think women are far more open minded and much less visual in what is acceptable.

Really? I guarantee women think men in magic Mike is sexy yet not so much a man with a gut.... yet men will find a big woman as hot as a fit women.

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[ChrisL]

Hmm. Sounds kind of like a way to avoid rejection . . . I still don't know what you would be waiting for. If I don't think a guy is interested, I move on. Otherwise, you might come across looking like a stalker or something.

Have you been married long? Maybe the last time you were trying to get with a girl, it was a very young girl, is why I ask. Most mature women would not appreciate being "played" like that. You are either interested or not.

Sure you dont....

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Look buddy, you get to be a certain age and you grow tired of silly little juvenile games, you know?

That's true for most of grow out if it. then it becomes s different game. Did you know women judge looks of men far more harshly the men judge women? a study was done and that was found ...m need to find the study not sure if I do if I will be able to link it .

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I don't believe it one bit. I think women are far more open minded and much less visual in what is acceptable.

Really? I guarantee women think men in magic Mike is sexy yet not so much a man with a gut.... yet men will find a big woman as hot as a fit women.

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Yeah right. I'm not buying it at all.

 

[thanatos144]

I find this behavior extremely annoying personally. I think there are way too many men who are nothing more than overgrown 16-year-olds. In fact, I would go so far as to say that my son is more mature and better behaved than some men I have encountered on these forums who claim to be in their 40s, 50s, or even older.

And there it is.... because men don't act how you think they should they are children. What would you think if I said way to many women need to stop being vain ?

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Ignoring someone that you like IS childish. There are WORSE things you can be than vain.

Yet you all say it is bad to always try and fuck you....... is it self delusions that make up your self worth?

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[ChrisL]

Hmm. Sounds kind of like a way to avoid rejection . . . I still don't know what you would be waiting for. If I don't think a guy is interested, I move on. Otherwise, you might come across looking like a stalker or something.

Have you been married long? Maybe the last time you were trying to get with a girl, it was a very young girl, is why I ask. Most mature women would not appreciate being "played" like that. You are either interested or not.

Sure you dont....

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Look buddy, you get to be a certain age and you grow tired of silly little juvenile games, you know?

That's true for most of grow out if it. then it becomes s different game. Did you know women judge looks of men far more harshly the men judge women? a study was done and that was found ...m need to find the study not sure if I do if I will be able to link it .

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I don't believe it one bit. I think women are far more open minded and much less visual in what is acceptable.

Really? I guarantee women think men in magic Mike is sexy yet not so much a man with a gut.... yet men will find a big woman as hot as a fit women.

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You still haven't answered my question either. What is your next move after you ignore the girl? Then what? What are waiting for to happen? For her to say, "oh take me, you beast!"

 

[ChrisL]

I find this behavior extremely annoying personally. I think there are way too many men who are nothing more than overgrown 16-year-olds. In fact, I would go so far as to say that my son is more mature and better behaved than some men I have encountered on these forums who claim to be in their 40s, 50s, or even older.

And there it is.... because men don't act how you think they should they are children. What would you think if I said way to many women need to stop being vain ?

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Ignoring someone that you like IS childish. There are WORSE things you can be than vain.

Yet you all say it is bad to always try and fuck you....... is it self delusions that make up your self worth?

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Whaaat? I don't recall saying any of those things.

 

[thanatos144]

Sure you dont....

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Look buddy, you get to be a certain age and you grow tired of silly little juvenile games, you know?

That's true for most of grow out if it. then it becomes s different game. Did you know women judge looks of men far more harshly the men judge women? a study was done and that was found ...m need to find the study not sure if I do if I will be able to link it .

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I don't believe it one bit. I think women are far more open minded and much less visual in what is acceptable.

Really? I guarantee women think men in magic Mike is sexy yet not so much a man with a gut.... yet men will find a big woman as hot as a fit women.

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You still haven't answered my question either. What is your next move after you ignore the girl? Then what? What are waiting for to happen? For her to say, "oh take me, you beast!" [emoji14]

What comes naturally. ... unless you are in college . No man should ever have sex in college . Way to easy to be accused of rape and get expelled

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[Pogo]

Sure you dont....

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Look buddy, you get to be a certain age and you grow tired of silly little juvenile games, you know?

That's true for most of grow out if it. then it becomes s different game. Did you know women judge looks of men far more harshly the men judge women? a study was done and that was found ...m need to find the study not sure if I do if I will be able to link it .

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I don't believe it one bit. I think women are far more open minded and much less visual in what is acceptable.

Really? I guarantee women think men in magic Mike is sexy yet not so much a man with a gut.... yet men will find a big woman as hot as a fit women.

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You still haven't answered my question either. What is your next move after you ignore the girl? Then what? What are waiting for to happen? For her to say, "oh take me, you beast!"

He goes to a message board and posts about "manginas".
Alone.

 

[Gracie]

Ol thanatos seems a bit misogynistic, or is it my imagination?

 

[ChrisL]

Look buddy, you get to be a certain age and you grow tired of silly little juvenile games, you know?

That's true for most of grow out if it. then it becomes s different game. Did you know women judge looks of men far more harshly the men judge women? a study was done and that was found ...m need to find the study not sure if I do if I will be able to link it .

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I don't believe it one bit. I think women are far more open minded and much less visual in what is acceptable.

Really? I guarantee women think men in magic Mike is sexy yet not so much a man with a gut.... yet men will find a big woman as hot as a fit women.

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You still haven't answered my question either. What is your next move after you ignore the girl? Then what? What are waiting for to happen? For her to say, "oh take me, you beast!" [emoji14]

What comes naturally. ... unless you are in college . No man should ever have sex in college . Way to easy to be accused of rape and get expelled

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Tapatalk needs to get some better smileys! Those look perverted! I posted the cute tongue smiley, not the perverted one that showed up when you quoted my post. Lol.

Anyways, what comes naturally? You are being pretty evasive. I don't think you really know. You've probably been married for years and you are completely out of the loop!!

 

[thanatos144]

Look buddy, you get to be a certain age and you grow tired of silly little juvenile games, you know?

That's true for most of grow out if it. then it becomes s different game. Did you know women judge looks of men far more harshly the men judge women? a study was done and that was found ...m need to find the study not sure if I do if I will be able to link it .

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I don't believe it one bit. I think women are far more open minded and much less visual in what is acceptable.

Really? I guarantee women think men in magic Mike is sexy yet not so much a man with a gut.... yet men will find a big woman as hot as a fit women.

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You still haven't answered my question either. What is your next move after you ignore the girl? Then what? What are waiting for to happen? For her to say, "oh take me, you beast!" [emoji14]

He goes to a message board and posts about "manginas".
Alone.

Just because you allow women to mentally abuse you doesn't have anything to do with me . You mangina tools are setting men back generations. I perfer my son and soon grandson to grow up knowing that because they are men isn't a evil thing and NO WOMAN has been he right to abuse them

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