Againsheila
Gold Member
and here is another FACT....
Why arent the black people who could "prepare adoptive children as black" not adopting them?
how may adoptive children do obamas have?
jessie jackson?
all sharpton?
oprah?
micheal jackson?
is there something wrong with single white mothers ..... being mothers to their half black children? Should white women be prohibited from having black children becasue they can bring up their black children.... black enough?
i also dont see that barry had any problems connecting with his blackness..... or suffering in any way not being brought up black enough by his white mother.
Loving parenting is NOT about preparing you to be a color. It is about bringing a child they love up to be a good, hopefully successful. happy person.
Probably because they don't want to adopt any children? I didnt realize you had to adopt children if you were well off financially. Why are there still white kids up for adoption? Shouldnt some wealthy white people adopt all of them?
Why would there be something wrong with white mothers that have children that are half Black? If they had the child with a Black guy chances are they are a little more knowledgeable about Black culture than one never having been involved with a Black guy. They have resources such as the child's Black grandparents, uncles, and aunts to assist as well. Also a white women with a mixed child has one important thing going for her. Its her child.
If you notice the POTUS married a Black woman. Anything he missed out on regarding Black culture is being provided by his wife.
You are correct. Being a loving parent is not about a color but it is about providing that child the best tools to deal with life. Unfortunately people that pretend life for a Black person is just like life for a white person is not dealing in reality.
As long as people think like you, there will always be racism.
Quote from Booker T. Washington
"There is a class of colored people who make a business of keeping the troubles, the wrongs, and the hardships of the Negro race before the public. Some of these people do not want the Negro to lose his grievances, because they do not want to lose their jobs. There is a certain class of race-problem solvers who don't want the patient to get well."
Booker called it long before you were born. And he actually was a slave and had a legitimate grievance.
Today there is no reason why a black child cannot be raised in a white family. Check out the movie Blind Side based on Michael Oher and his adoption by a white family. Then think about how many white people there are out there who have adopted black children and love them like their own. Raise them, educate them, care for them. Only a heartless bigot would somehow think that a child isn't good enough for a couple because of his/her color, or the couple isn't good enough for the child based on their color.