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Wouldn't bother me; would you expect it to bother many people?
I don't know. I don't have a dog in the hunt. Just a question. My husband and I prepared documents stating who we wanted raising our children if we predeceased them. My daughter and her husband have done the same. Everyone should do that. Of course, many adopted children have not lost parents due to death, they have lost children because they abused or neglected them.
I might add that if both parents predecease their children, the appointment of a custodial person is ENTIRELY a court decision. But if you have been proactive, they will usually respect your wishes.
That's what God Parents are for, depending upon one's religious affiliation.
We didn't do the God parent thing here. But something official is better than nothing at all.