Asclepias
Diamond Member
yes, it does matter that black people adopt less.
they are the ones leaving said black children to fend for themselves in a White home.
black children being adopted by White parents....ARE being adopted with the intention of giving that child the best life and tools to deale with life as possible..... regardless of color
What is... and what you would want in a perfect world are very different things..... but then again...if black people adopted more of the unwanted black children....this would be a non issue.
they don't......
No it doesnt matter. You are talking about 2 different things. The rate of black adoption by Black people and the order of priority that Black children should be given to prospective parents. Again I cite the unadopted white children to illustrate how far off base you are. How can you tie the 2 together? White children are left to fend for themselves in foster homes by white couples. What is the rationale for that and what does it have to do with the issue we are discussing?
I dont have a problem with Black children being adopted by white couples as long as a black couple is given the first option. its only an issue to you because you are making it one. Again intentions may be good but the facts are the intentions should be coupled with the know how necessary to teach a Black child coping skills in a society that has historically shown his/her people they are regarded as less than human. How do you do that if you have never experienced it yourself?
the rational is that the white parents are not adopting based on color. They are adopting based on the love for a child they are willing to share their lives with.....
^^ not racist.
Its not about .... "oh lets adopt a white kid because we can teach it to be a white kid."
How do they know they love this child? You don't just arbitrarily love someone. Its a decision. Yes it is about color if they are intentionally adopting a Black child. How can you say its not? That doesnt make them bad people as their aim is to help provide a home. However in doing so they should be aware that they will not be able to provide that cultural component themselves.