Againsheila
Gold Member
The problem here is the adoption process is difficult and long. It makes me wonder if that was the law...if the adoption process here would get better.
I agree that it seems that they make more difficult to adopt here, ironically it seems to be the same people who complain about the lack of children being adopted here, that make it so hard to adopt a child. I do think that a "fostering" turned into adoption process is good with children who are older, that way if any issues arise the child can still be protected. If they make it through the "foster" process after a certain amount of time, then I think adoption could be granted.
lots of things here.... states do not want fosters to adopt, they may lose fosters. Fosters usual will not adopt, as fostering is a money making business......
I do agree that older children should have interaction with potential adoptive parents and the adoption should be what all parties involved want.
I have friends who fostered to adopt 2 children. There was a 3rd they fostered, but the parents took him back before they could adopt him.