Granny
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- Dec 14, 2009
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How to do you cope with it? I started with a little lady on her 100th birthday ... and she's now 101 and 6 months old. She was so vibrant when my co-worker and I started ... an incredible range of food likes. We fixed her 3 homemade meals a day - anything - cajun, Chinese, country, you name it. Judging from her collection of cookbooks, she and her late husband did a lot of entertaining in their day. She had such a wonderful sense of humor. When I would tell her how pretty she was, she would say something like "Phoey" until one day when she looked me square in the face and said, "That's horseshit!"
We could take her out on her patio to sit in the sun. Remarkably, she has some memory loss from time to time, but not really dementia and certainly not Alzheimer's. She takes no medication of any kind!!! But a few months back she took a downturn and is now in a hospital bed ... period. It's so hard. She rarely eats anymore and we're pushing protein and water. I would love to have known her in her younger years ... she has lived life to the very fullest and would probably be a fountain of information ... a voracious reader according to her son.
We know we're going to lose her ... but it's just so hard. Anybody out there who's in the home care area that has any coping wisdom? My heart just goes out to Bones and what she has had to cope with.
We could take her out on her patio to sit in the sun. Remarkably, she has some memory loss from time to time, but not really dementia and certainly not Alzheimer's. She takes no medication of any kind!!! But a few months back she took a downturn and is now in a hospital bed ... period. It's so hard. She rarely eats anymore and we're pushing protein and water. I would love to have known her in her younger years ... she has lived life to the very fullest and would probably be a fountain of information ... a voracious reader according to her son.
We know we're going to lose her ... but it's just so hard. Anybody out there who's in the home care area that has any coping wisdom? My heart just goes out to Bones and what she has had to cope with.