The problem is you told God how to answer your prayer. You don't know the big picture. 50 years ago, this spring, I got suspended from school for three days for fighting. I prayed that I wouldn't be suspended, but I was. And I needed to be. It taught me a valuable lesson. God knew the big picture far more than I did. Sure,you can put in your two cents, but God's will always make sure the best result happens when you pray. The better prayer would have been to ask that everything turn out for the best for you, your mom, and your family.Here's why I'm not a Catholic.
1982, my mom had cancer. She was a well liked art teacher in the parish. The whole parish prayed for her to get better. I prayed.
She died anyway.
No God.
No point pretending there is one to "feel better" about the inevitability of death.
Certainly stupid to turn a blind eye to all the evils of the Church (misogyny, child molestation, collaboration with Nazis, etc. etc. ) so I can feel better about dying.
The statement about collaboration with the Nazis is a lie, pure and simple.
As I asked before, are you equally hard on irreligious institutions that have far more child molestation, thievery, and corruption than a few people in the Catholic church? Godless public schools have far more and far greater per capita child molestations than the in RCC. Do you come out against them as inherently evil like you do the Church? Something tells me you don't.