Kondor3
Cafeteria Centrist
Yeah... I managed to drag a skeleton out of a Grand Uncle's (dead for 40 years) closet when his illegitimate son found my online genealogy file and spotted his father's name on it... next thing you know, I'm getting bombarded with email inquiries from a 3rd cousin, etc., and ruffling some feathers amongst surviving in-the-know family who never mentioned the Long-Lost Tribe of Israel before.One of my cousins, doing Irish genealogy work, says much the same thing."...Thanks to genealogy websites, I can trace my roots back to the clan chief, going back to the 1200s."
I'm a little more skeptical, but I managed to make good progress on the German half of my Irish-German ancestry, when I was 'into genealogy' in the 2000-2003 timeframe.
Had a 'Roots / Kunte Kinte' moment (on paper) in finding the family villages in Hesse, and managed to latch onto parish and civil documents that take us back to the early 1600s, over there, before the trail goes cold.
Fun stuff, genealogy, if you've got the patience and persistence and drive for it.
Kills me sometimes to realize that I was stationed only 50-60 miles from there, as a kid in the Army, and didn't even realize it at the time.
My family and another family in Western KY have formed a non profit 'association.' The DAR sponsored a workshop on doing genealogy at one of the reunions. I went and learned a lot. One thing you don't think about is things that aren't there but should be. The example the speaker gave was when he researched his mother's side. He got her hospital records for some reason. Her chart said she had given birth 3 times and she did not list any children as having been stillborn or dying. The researcher's question: Who was number 3, and where did he/she go. There are things like this that even people in the know simply will not divulge to you no matter how hard you try to get them to.
My sister's adoption was one of those taboo subjects when I was growing up. She didn't want people to know she was adopted so my brother and I were forbidden to speak about it. I don't think she is even listed as 'adopted' in our family history books.
And, of course, the further back in time you go, the less reliable, the Census data and paper records and medical records and diagnoses, and stories.
My own favorite resources were a paid subscription to Genealogy, Family Trees & Family History Records at Ancestry.com and RootsWeb.com Home Page, as well as the Mormon (LDS) microfilm library (which houses millions of non-LDS church registries and records from around the country, on microfilm, going back a couple of centuries). Those, and a good database (I used Family Tree Maker, myself).
And, of course, once you publish online, it's amazing how often you're contacted by others - including long-lost, never-known 3rd and 4th cousins and the like - for yourself and your spouse - heck, I'm still getting an average of 6-10 email inquiries per year, and it's been two years since I published my last online update.
Fun stuff (genealogy), when the fever is upon you, and when some of the family who are actually somewhat interested, begin to enrich their own understanding about family history, but you can burn-off cash pretty quickly with remote or overseas research proxies, and you've gotta watch yourself re: credentials and reviews, etc.
Hope you're having fun with your own experience with such things.
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