WinterBorn
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- #121
Using fantasy in the bedroom of a long term relationship is perfectly healthy.
the sex is so much better when you fantasize about each other instead of others.![]()
If that is what makes you click, go for it. However, psychologists have said that fantasy is not only harmless, but actually good for a relationship.
And as for the girl in the OP, she might be making a good living with her webcam show, and never touching another person. I mean, since we are speculating.
Like I SAID, if that is the kind of women that you like, I don't care. My point stands.
What point? That she is a disgusting ho? That she is an attention whore? That fantasies (while in a relationship) are bad, despite most psychologists saying quite the contrary?
Hey, if that's the kind of relationship you want, more power to you. That is not what I would want. I would want my man to be thinking about MY body and me while we are having sex.I think MOST people would agree.
I feel that if my man NEEDS to fantasize about other women, then I'm not doing it for him, and I would move on to a man who appreciates me and my body.![]()
No, I think most people would disagree. In fact, most people do fantasize on occasion, while having sex with their partners.