ChrisL
Diamond Member
If you look like a man and you are wearing a dress, you are still a HE (a weird he, but still a he).
The other thing is the concept of "gender fluid" where they don't identify with any one, or can change their mind on a day to day basis what they want to be called.
That is really messed up. On most days, I feel like a person and my gender is not the first and foremost thing on my mind, and that is how I know they are fucked up.
if someone was nice about it, I probably would accomodate them.
I don't really think it is the healthy thing to do though. Feeding a delusion is usually never a good idea because it doesn't really help any underlying issues.
As long as the only person they are deluding is themselves, I feel no need to interfere.
As long as they are nice about it, I will call them whatever they want to be called.
The second they get nasty about it, that's when I go into Fuck You mode.
Sure I probably would too, just to be polite, but I still wouldn't feel comfortable about doing it.