Ray From Cleveland
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we have screwed up our educational system and not taught our kids the necessary skills to succeed in the future.
When kids in America are raised with a sense of entitlement, it isn't the education system that failed, it's the parenting. Wanting immediate success is entitlement, and having an understanding that you have to work for your success is the education.
Your comment reminds me of some neighbors I had a few years ago. The kid bought a portable basketball hoop, and before you know it, the entire neighborhood of kids were next door.
There had to be anywhere between 8 to 20 kids here at times. They started playing after school and didn't stop until I yelled at them or called the cops. They played well past dark. The question I asked myself is where are these kids parent(s)? Why are they not home doing homework or at the very least, be getting ready for school the next day?
With the exception of rainy days, this went on seven days a week. Sure, I played basketball too as a kid, but my ass had to be home well before the street lights came on, and I was only two or three doors down. These kids next door came from blocks away.
It's harder to say that their lack of parenting came from parents who had a lack of parenting of their own. It seems the quality of which seems to degrade over generations. A generational degradation of parental influence, so to speak.
I give the honors to single-parent households. A boy being raised by a mother alone is okay up until they reach puberty. After that, they begin to test the boundary lines which many females can't keep drawn. Eventually the mother simply gives up and the boys do as they please whenever they please.
In our suburb, police calls to be surrogate fathers became so frequent they created a law that any more than three police calls to a resident per year would result in fees being charged to the homeowner for each additional call. When I listen to my police scanner, I would estimate over 90% of the calls are about kids--many from their own parents.