Asclepias
Diamond Member
Personally I refrain from using the word negro or ******, ever. I know that they are words that have racist connotations and are very hurtful and emotional for blacks, especially considering the history behind those words. Blacks use it all the time, even when they're socializing with each other. But it's another thing if a white guy says it, even if they're really good friends.
Heck when I'm around friends that are black, I never use the word "black" as a descriptive way to identify another person. Blacks in general are very sensitive about this issue and their history, and I totally understand and respect that.
Even Black can be offensive if you are not using it correctly. This is because there are several definitions as I see it.
Black the color
Black which describes the American descendants of African slaves. Africans, Puerto Ricans, Dominicans and other people from the Caribbean may take offense at this because their culture is slightly different.
Black which is used to describe all people of color with African ancestry no matter where they are in the world.