OldLady
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Thanks for your frankness. You're right, a person has got to want it and want it bad in order to kick a drug habit. Opiate addiction does actually mess with your brain, though, and change its thought processes, so I guess you could technically call it a "disease." Once it's got ya, it's as bad as cancer and even harder to fight. I've been close to people who became addicts: they lie to your face--I swear they believe it themselves; they'll steal your last $10 out of your wallet, even if you were once their best friend, even if they know you're flat broke and hanging on for the next paycheck; they'll do ANYTHING to get more drugs. Even throw themselves down a flight of stairs and scratch and bruise themselves so they can go to the ER for a shot. Ah, the bullshit I listened to. I put my best friend in jail to save her life. She's still an addict and hates my guts. You're right. Only the druggie can decide.I cannot speak for mental health - but substance abuse treatment?
What a crock of shit.
I was a crack addict and I knew LOTS of other drug addicts - and none of them got better from going to drug treatment programs. Listen to all the dozens of stories of celebrities who go to rehab and then relapse. Rehab is good for two things only - to stop you bingeing out and/or if you are the type who likes being told what to do/ordered around. But most addicts are rebels - the last thing they like is to be ordered around.
People do drugs for ONE REASON - to escape their lives. And whatever is messing them up almost certainly cannot be fixed at rehab (unless it is one of those mega-expensive ones which includes head shrinking. And you have to be 'ready' to have your 'head-shrunk'.).
And save all this 'drug abuse is a disease' shit. I did not catch drug addiction. I tried crack (by mistake - long story) and I loved it so I kept doing it. The End. I did not catch it like a disease. It was fucking awesome (and I mean fucking AWESOME - it was almost like an orgasm that lasted for as long as you were high) and I was 'ready' for it, could easily afford it and so I kept doing it. Duh.
No one - and I mean NO ONE - quits drugs until they want to badly enough. Otherwise, why would anyone ever keep doing them? Everyone knows they are terrible for you. And many of them cost a TON to do. My addiction could cost me $6-800 a day (I did not do it every day - obviously).
The two possible exceptions are heroin and opiods...
Heroin - that drug is physically addictive (the only one that was back in the day. Don't know about now). I never did it or Meth...but I know once you start heroin...it's REALLY fucking hard to quit. That's why methadone clinics are around.
Opiods - I don't know much about them. I did not know someone hooked on them when I was using.
I did crack for about 3 (technically 4) years and quit it all by myself for one reason...it just was not worth it anymore. It still felt amazing. But it just was not worth it. That was 14+ years ago (October 1, 2004)...haven't done it since. Do I miss it...damn right. But it's just not worth it (even if it was free).
And everyone I ever knew who quit a major drug did so on their own. That is the only way to have a realistic chance of staying away for good. Because rehab is fine while you are there. But your old problems/fears/frustrations crop back up when you leave rehab..and that is when you are tested.
Kamala may mean well with her idea...but she clearly has little idea what drug addiction is all about.
The solution is MAKE IT ALL LEGAL. That way people will feel free to admit their addictions. The drug will be a LOT cheaper - so addicts will not have to resort to crimes to feed their habit (I had plenty of money back then - so I could feed my habit myself). Prostitution will diminish as most escorts do it for drug money. Organized crime will be hurt. The jails will be FAR less full. Tax payers will make money as the government could tax these drugs (like they do cigs or booze). And far more money can be freed up for police to go after more serious crimes.
And save the ridiculous argument that legalizing it will mean lots more addicts. No one straight up and reasonably well adjusted decides to try heroin for the fun of it. Please.