shockedcanadian
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I can but I won't. It is all on here.well that's interesting - can you be a little insightfull for what it might be that needs forgiving ...
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I can but I won't. It is all on here.well that's interesting - can you be a little insightfull for what it might be that needs forgiving ...
I can but I won't. It is all on here.
I stated it correctoy, it's all on here. Your posting on here confuses me to be honest, can you decipher it in plain English for me please?was that meant to be - it's all on her ...
howabout ...
they haven't a drivers license - lost their state id - called a cab anyway, went to their bank on the other side of town, were not able to withdraw any money, went to a different branch same result then had the cab bring them home and told the cab driver the guy inside will pay the fair - $51.00.
that's - ellen o'hara - as in gone with the wind.
For all those who wonder how I can do so. I'm not sure if I can quite honestly, but I do know that God demands it from each of us, even when it's difficult: “‘Do not seek revenge or bear a grudge against anyone among your people, but love your neighbor as yourself. I am the Lord.
/——/ Funny how anti Christian pagans quote the Bible when it suits them.For all those who wonder how I can do so. I'm not sure if I can quite honestly, but I do know that God demands it from each of us, even when it's difficult: “‘Do not seek revenge or bear a grudge against anyone among your people, but love your neighbor as yourself. I am the Lord.
one of the passages that encourages me to forgive my wife ...
well that's interesting - can you be a little insightfull for what it might be that needs forgiving ...
I can but I won't. It is all on here.
I stated it correctoy, it's all on here. Your posting on here confuses me to be honest, can you decipher it in plain English for me please?
well shocky, you have not stated your grievance only that you find something in your wife you feel needs forgiving ... does she talk back to you.
- maybe learn american more straight forward and less deceptive than english, c-bible double talk -
Clearly you haven't been following my disclosure on this site. Let it be then, it would take hours to go over it all.
I am trying to forgive her as I've tried to forgive many in my life.
I've seen this happen.The Bible does not say for you to submit to your wife.......she is to submit to you. Stand up to her then get her some psych help for her abusive behaviors.
Most abusers do so only as long as you let them and will back down if confronted.
well said and I agree. But it looks like that guy is financially stuck where he's at.Regarding, forgiveness, it is to forgive the little blunders and unintentional pains caused by neighbors and relatives. If harm has been intended, as in attacking you with a knife, gun etc. forgiveness does not apply. Forgiveness does not apply unless they confess and repent. You gotta do what it takes to survive.
Looking through some old photos today. It is painful. Not just because I was younger and more vibrant, but because they were such happier times. Even my dog looked great.well said and I agree. But it looks like that guy is financially stuck where he's at.
Frankly, it is usually women abused by men, not the other way around. Then again, I don't get out much anymore....
In any case, it sounds like that ... that person needs to be put in her place asap
I've seen this happen.
If someone knows the victim will just continue to take it.. a bully is more than happy to comply. That's why they are called bullies. I'm thankful I am not married. It's difficult at times to be alone, wanting someone to talk to.. laugh with (at dimrats).. sigh, but I've never met anyone I really, really thought I'd be compatible with long-term. Once the romance fades away (or drops dead, depending...) it's Misery City.
The Bible does not say for you to submit to your wife.......she is to submit to you. Stand up to her then get her some psych help for her abusive behaviors.
Most abusers do so only as long as you let them and will back down if confronted.
Shows how bad the Bible is. It's 2000 year old "ethics", like "your wife is your property" crap.
There is nothing wrong with the Bible, 2,000 years ago or today. There is however a problem with mans interpretation of it to suit his ego.
Submitting is not to be a slave or a doormat. It is allowing the man to be head of the house and respecting his authority over it. A relationship is like team work. Each partner has their own roles in it that support and benefit the 'whole'. Similar to a sports team.....each member has their job to help the team win.
In the OP's case (and millions of others) there never should be any abuse of any kind, whether physical, mental or emotional. When there is, the abuser has overstepped. But also in those types of relationships, it's a co-dependency. The abuser keeps abusing and the abused keeps taking it and blames themselves for the abuse. There are alot of psychological issues going on and they both need help in order to get out of that cycle to see themselves as worthy of love and respect, without the abuse. But that's up to the OP to get that help for himself, or he will always be in this same position........whether with his current wife, or anyone else........because those are the types of people and relationships he is programmed to search out.
Of course you don't think you need help. No one in an abusive relationship ever does.............but if you don't get help, then you will continue in the same types of relationships the rest of your life.We need help together. I am not going to pursue additional help outside a few resources. I don't need help when I am not being abused by others. Abuse seems to be a past time in Canada...
Of course you don't think you need help. No one in an abusive relationship ever does.............but if you don't get help, then you will continue in the same types of relationships the rest of your life.
Yes you both need help..........her to not be so controlling and YOU to not be controlled. IOW, there is more going on that just the abuse.....deep seated needs and fears, that drive certain types of people together in such a relationship. Even if you never see your wife again, and find someone else........that new someone will also abuse you in some way and that cycle starts all over again. Getting the help now can prevent you living a life of always being a victim.
Abuse happens all over the world, not just Canada
This begins with state abuse. Abuse by the covert police apparatus. If not for such abuse, I would have my careers and freedom. Instead it made a bad situation worse.
Canadas economy is in deep trouble due to the Security Industrial Complex. Some in our media are trying to expose this, but not nearly enough. We will be a have-not nation before long due to the cream of the crop rarely rising.