Clementine
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You ignored most of my post where I focused on the need for proof before charging anyone. Pretty selective on your part to focus on one thing.
It's not that I'm ignoring it. But I am trying to focus on a particular component to this whole thing that I think needs to be highlighted. About 99.9% of all reaction to this incident, as tends to be the case with similar incidents, reaches into deep, dark places. In our hindsight we cast some severe, retrospective demands. For example, "knowing someone well enough to know if they're blowing off steam or they are serious" seems fine and dandy. But really, it's a demand for perfection. Maybe she didn't know him well enough. Maybe she thought she did. Maybe she was mistaken in thinking he was blowing off steam. Maybe she really didn't know how serious he was. Maybe her own bias interfered with her judgement.
Bad things happen all the time, done by seemingly good people, shocking everyone who knows the guilty party. How many times have we seen the "Friends and Family Stunned Shooter Had A Dark Side" headlines over the years? It's so common it's cliche. But the Orlando incident is about 1) Muslims, 2) Gay people, 3) Guns. It's a perfect storm, hitting all of the most emotionally charged raw nerves. The public's reactionarism is thrice as dangerous as if it was only one of the above. And it's thrice as irrational.
My point was that there has to be proof and, if she did know something, she may have told a friend. Without a witness saying she knew something or her saying so, no way to tell.
Women have lived with men who were murderers, rapists and some that beat or even sexually abused their children and turns out many knew, or at least suspected, but were in denial or just would never turn against their own husband no matter what. It happens. Some women are subservient and this is particularly true of many Muslim women. Some might follow orders without being told anything about why.
The big question is whether she helped him in any way to plan the attack or whether she had knowledge of an impending attack. All is hard to prove, though a lack of evidence never stopped a zealous prosecutor. Most cases are circumstantial because hard evidence is rare.
Perhaps if they question her, they can discover whether she was kept in the dark or not.
I just don't want to jump to conclusions because that never helps anything. As I said, if she knew anything, she'd have to admit it or a friend she confided in would have to come forth.
Buying ammunition is perfectly legal, so I don't see that as a red flag. The investigation is still underway, so no point in speculating and best to wait.
I am getting tired of people pointing fingers because a guy who was once investigated managed to get a gun. Being investigated doesn't mean anything unless the investigation leads to an arrest and conviction. Just being investigated would not prevent someone from buying a gun in the future. My problem with the investigation is the reason it ended. They dropped it after taking his word that his coworkers were unfairly picking on him because he was Muslim.