If the Russians had tortured and killed Brittany Griner, would you say the same?
Not even close to the same thing. Griner was INVITED to come to Russia, and then the Russians nabbed her on a pretextual charge because they were upset that Biden imposed sanctions on them and got most of the rest of the world to go along with them.
Gonzalo went to Ukraine because American women would have nothing to do with his misogyny, married a Ukrainian woman, but then still proceeded to violate the laws of the Ukraine.