I am not going to say a word about what happens at sidebar, much less what we do in chambers... I would get disbarred if I told.
You don't hear nurses talking about what they say in shift report or anyone on a psych treatment team telling what they talk about. Of course, knowing as I do, and did even before I went to law school, that there are instances that hearsay can come in, there are some things I hear a LOT of nurses say that I NEVER say under any circumstances because taken out of context those things can get you crucified. When I was teaching I always cautioned my students to keep their jokes and opinions to themselves.
Sad that we live in a world where some people are willing to crucify others for making silly comments.
I need the Star Trek WUT? sign: