Redfish
Diamond Member
Wrong, the issues are EXACTLY related.
Either you are for the government not being allowed to define marriage, or you are for the government defining marriage.
You want it both ways, you want the government to define marriage, a little
Not possible
That is an easy one- the only ones raising that argument are those who oppose same gender marriage- it is a strawman raised by those who oppose marriage equality for same gender couples.
I don't put any argument at all forward about polygamy because it has nothing to do with same gender marriage.
No more than polygamy had anything to do with mixed race marriage bans, or bans on men marrying who owed child support or bans on prisoners marrying.
You want to push to legalize polygamy- go start a thread about legalizing polygamy. Not my issue.
By the way- the opponents of mixed race marriage also argued that repealing those laws would lead to legalized polygamy.
Anyway- enjoy your strawman.
I am for treating same gender couples legally exactly as my wife and I have been treated.
You are either for treating them equally- or against treating them equally.
Then you don't understand the breadth of the issue
The issue is "Should the government be allowed to define marriage?"
If the answer is no then it is no
That is your issue- not mine- nor is it the issue being argued in court.
Same gender couples are not arguing that governments cannot 'define' marriage- i.e. regulate who can get married- what they are arguing is that laws which prevent same gender couples from marrying violate their Constitutional rights to equal treatment under the law, and that states cannot articulate a compelling state interest in restricting their right to marry.
LOL and you don't think polygamists would have the SAME argument?
I think you KNOW they would, but admitting that would open your argument up to Redfish's slippery slope argument
I don't care what you think about polygamy- you can go file suit tomorrow arguing that you should be able to marry your wife- and her sister and her brother- and I would applaud your right to file suit.
But it has nothing to do with wanting a same gender couple to have the same legal ability to marry as my wife and I had.
Just a strawman created by those who oppose same gender marriage- just as it was used as a strawman to support bans on mixed race marriages.
the legal arguments are EXACTLY the same. Thats what you fools cannot seem to grasp.