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Mack, mack, mack....when a gay man hits on a straight man, trust me, the straight guy doesn't start wondering if he himself might be gay, he feels the natural urge of repulsion.
Your deep speculation into the true sexual preferences of straight men, while laudable, are still quite laughable.
A few men think that some hairy bunghole is the way to go. Real men find it disgusting.
Yet another thing about homophobia that I find fascinating. If a gay woman hits on me, I'm no more or less repulsed than a man hitting on me who I'm not attracted to. I tell them I'm not interested and it's done with. It's just a person hitting on me that I'm not sexually attracted to, why is the fact that it's a woman instead of a man supposed to disgust me more? I don't start having fantasies about what having sex with that woman would be like just because they hit on me, do you start fantasizing about sex with men when/if they hit on you?
Why, exactly, do you spend so much time pontificating on the sexual side of a gay relationship? You seem particularly interested in male gay relationships, at that.
Some men think that larger women are the way to go. Others find it unappealing. Does that make the first type of guy disgusting?
What leads you to believe this person spends a significant amount of time "pontificating on the sexual side of a gay relationship?"
I always find it odd that anyone who discusses this topic immediately gets knee-jerk responses like, "why do you obsess...." and "why is this such a big problem for you..."
Can we not debate the point on the merits without getting into character assassination idiocy?