- Mar 11, 2015
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When I married my husband, the first thing he said to me was “Listen.” And I did. I listened to his experiences, his point of view, his insights. Years later I’m still listening and learning......
And vice versa?
I'm sure he listens but what you need to understand as a white man is this, things have not been the same for blacks and whites. Furthermore we have heard learned and have been educated on he white story. But this is another example of white fragility. Let's make it about me, my feelings are more important than . those of the person of color trying to explain how they feel.