Cheating on your Lover

[dilloduck]

Umm....lessee....wasn't it Dane? Lol. Remember his fist name had four letters and incoporated one or more common first names in it? Lol...Sherry...you are so damn much fun! Love it!!!

Damnit woman, you are frustrating me. Now I have to go masturbate.

Always a good thing....

I think you sent everyone off into privacy !

 

[Paulie]

I find it interesting that most people will be willing to offer someone an opportunity for redemption for just about ANY offense, but for some reason the issue of fidelity seems to be a deal breaker in a most absolute sense.

Why is that? What the fuck is so important about the act of sex that it's put on some kind of pedestal like that?

welcome---we've been exploring that very topic. Give it your best shot. There are some pretty honest women here who are assisting too. It's appreciated.

Well I guess I should clarify by saying that I do find sex to be important in a relationship, but in other ways. Good or bad sex can be a deal breaking situation, but I'm just no sure why a one-time cheat is considered so horrible.

The whole "once a cheat, always a cheat" thing is bullshit. It's a cop out for someone who simply can't admit that they're insecure with themselves.

People make mistakes by virtue of being human. That we have the capacity to forgive is one of the things that makes us special.

There's no mistake that can't be redeemed for.

 

[Lumpy 1]

Wow, you guys have some mighty deep conversations after midnight. Good job, Lump.

Thanks.. this thread has turned out rather interesting, great twists and turns...

 

[dilloduck]

Wow, you guys have some mighty deep conversations after midnight. Good job, Lump.

Thanks.. this thread has turned out rather interesting, great twists and turns...

I was just thinking about you. We've come a long way from melons !
You should be ashamed of yourself !

 

[Ava]

Damnit woman, you are frustrating me. Now I have to go masturbate.

Always a good thing....

I think you sent everyone off into privacy !

When we're hot we're HOT!!!

 

[Lumpy 1]

The porn industry and how it makes money is not really a very good indicator of whether women have trouble controlling lust. Do you think porn is the only outlet for sexual frustration?

so you are saying that women may do other things as a result of their hard wired lust ?

I'm saying that the porn industry is geared more towards providing a product that men will buy. Because men have more money than women and because it's more socially accepted for men to indulge in porn. Porn doesn't do much for me. Not that I've given it much opportunity. My real life and my imagination pretty much give me what I need to feel satisfied.

Porn doesn't do much for me. Not that I've given it much opportunity. My real life and my imagination pretty much give me what I need to feel satisfied.[/QUOTE]

I'm with you on this.. add some memories and were there.

 

[Lumpy 1]

Wow, you guys have some mighty deep conversations after midnight. Good job, Lump.

Thanks.. this thread has turned out rather interesting, great twists and turns...

I was just thinking about you. We've come a long way from melons !
You should be ashamed of yourself !

Ashamed.. Thank goodness your around.. I can always say,"hey, he's worse"..
and feel only slightly better..

This thread has given me some great ideas for posts/threads .. even the, "Great Dilloduck" could end up blushing...

 

[Lumpy 1]

Hey what happened to this thread..

I suspect everyone is now caught up in the Glow..

I suppose now they'll just be relaxed and hungry...

 

[LuckyDan]

The ladies got bored.

Quick, Lump. Post something romantic.

 

[Lumpy 1]

The ladies got bored.

Quick, Lump. Post something romantic.

Sounds good... I'll give it a shot

 

[Lumpy 1]

Always a good thing....

I think you sent everyone off into privacy !

When we're hot we're HOT!!!

You're up for re-evaluation... better and better..

 

[gslack]

LOL, sorry for the delay my bathroom was occupied by my son....

 

[RadiomanATL]

TMI about your sex life, Amanda.

No no no....keep going....


Need to borrow my camera?

Actually we have a water proof camera which comes in handy for more reasons than 1 might imagine without thinking about it a bit...

@gmail.com

 

[JW Frogen]

Quick, Lump. Post something romantic.

Calgon take me away!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[gslack]

Quick, Lump. Post something romantic.

Calgon take me away!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Dam Jdub, you are one romantic guy....

 

[dilloduck]

Quick, Lump. Post something romantic.

Calgon take me away!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Dam Jdub, you are one romantic guy....

I love him now

 

[gslack]

Calgon take me away!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Dam Jdub, you are one romantic guy....

I love him now

 

[xotoxi]

I've never understood the whole swinger deal.

What's not to understand?

Tonight we went to a party and ended up in a room with 3 other couples plus a single female*. A good time was had by all. Everyone went home with their mate. Or stayed over in the room.

Trust is very important, but in a weird way it's also easier to give. Why would I want to cheat (have sex without my partner's knowledge) when I can have any man I want? Why would he ever cheat when he can have any woman he wants? Sex is fun, but it's different for us when it's between us or with other people. When I'm with my guy it's a deep emotional connection as well as a gratifying physical experience. When we're "playing" it's different. It's just fun. That's all. Mature people can do this and it can work. Fragile, emotionally weak people can't imagine how it can work. If you're counting on some social contract to keep your mate faithful then I pity you. You have NOTHING. My guy and I have something so much better. We have real trust. We talk about everything. We share what we enjoyed about our other partners. There's no jealousy, just learning how to please each other better and becoming so much closer for our ability to just open up and share.

Sometimes I have these dreams where my insecurities come out. I tell him about how I'm fearful of him getting back together with his ex, or how he'll be with someone that satisfies him better than I can. And he holds me close and tells me how I'm being silly, that no 1 could satisfy him better. We are THAT free to tell each other anything. He tells me how he sometimes worries I'll want some hardbody boy with a 9" cock instead of him. It's all so beautiful because we can truly share anything with each other. I don't know if it's because we swing or not, but I feel I have the best relationship EVER. I feel bad for anyone that can't be as free as we are with each other.

* She's part of a couple but her guy in in the Army and he's in Cali right now but they are ok with playing apart.

That story is so moving...it touched me to my soul.

 

[elvis]

I've never understood the whole swinger deal.

What's not to understand?

Tonight we went to a party and ended up in a room with 3 other couples plus a single female*. A good time was had by all. Everyone went home with their mate. Or stayed over in the room.

Trust is very important, but in a weird way it's also easier to give. Why would I want to cheat (have sex without my partner's knowledge) when I can have any man I want? Why would he ever cheat when he can have any woman he wants? Sex is fun, but it's different for us when it's between us or with other people. When I'm with my guy it's a deep emotional connection as well as a gratifying physical experience. When we're "playing" it's different. It's just fun. That's all. Mature people can do this and it can work. Fragile, emotionally weak people can't imagine how it can work. If you're counting on some social contract to keep your mate faithful then I pity you. You have NOTHING. My guy and I have something so much better. We have real trust. We talk about everything. We share what we enjoyed about our other partners. There's no jealousy, just learning how to please each other better and becoming so much closer for our ability to just open up and share.

Sometimes I have these dreams where my insecurities come out. I tell him about how I'm fearful of him getting back together with his ex, or how he'll be with someone that satisfies him better than I can. And he holds me close and tells me how I'm being silly, that no 1 could satisfy him better. We are THAT free to tell each other anything. He tells me how he sometimes worries I'll want some hardbody boy with a 9" cock instead of him. It's all so beautiful because we can truly share anything with each other. I don't know if it's because we swing or not, but I feel I have the best relationship EVER. I feel bad for anyone that can't be as free as we are with each other.

* She's part of a couple but her guy in in the Army and he's in Cali right now but they are ok with playing apart.

That story is so moving...it touched me to my soul.

in the immortal words of Robert Plant, you (her post) hurt me to my soul.

 

[Modbert]

This has probably already been posted, but what the hey.

[ame=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b5--Sje98jI]YouTube - 4 Paul Simon BBC TV (50 Ways To Leave Your Lover)[/ame]