Sherry
You're not the boss of me
#3 is a very female thing, I think, but you're describing a romantic/sexual experience. I was talking about porn and romance lit as a substituute for that, and using them a examples of the male-female differences.
A romance novel can provide a mental sort of "snuggling". It provides the COMPLETE fantasy, and I think that's what women crave more than men. Men can look at a pic and just jump into the middle of it and be satisfied, with no closure necessary.
We don't disagree, but what do you mean by closure?
I think for men, it is ejaculation. For women, it is how they are handled after reaching climax. Men don't bask in the glow for anywhere near as long.