Dads "racist" rant against race mixing daughter goes viral

[Aries]

Do you know this young man? Or do you think hes a "street thug" because hes black?


I don't know many street thugs that even bother with school functions...

Oh, they do.

So you think that Matthew should assume, based on this young mans color, that he is a street thug?

Disappointed in you Unk.

Where did I say or imply that?

??????

I guess I don't know what you meant "oh, they do"

they as in they do judge him by his color
or they as in thugs do go to prom lol
idk what the subject of your sentence is.

Read the last part of your post that I quoted. It's not so difficult to follow along.

I'm sorry, I do not see anything quoted. I see "oh, they do"

 

[P@triot]

People need to learn what the word "racism" actually means. If you hate someone just because of their ethnicity - that is racism. If you refuse to allow your children to date someone because of their ethnicity (or other factors), that is not "racism".

I have two daughters and I've already made it painfully clear to my wife (my girls are still too little to discuss this stuff with) that our girls will not be marrying an Asian, or an African American, or a Mexican, etc. They can be friends with them, they are welcome in our home, etc. but dating/marriage is a whole 'nother level. She completely agrees with me.

racism is thinking any one was is inherently superior to others. If you are white and won't allow your kids to date someone who's black, it is because you don't see blacks as equals. It is because you are a racist.

Well that's a cute progressive snowflake battle-cry, but it simply isn't true. It has nothing to do with superiority or inferiority. Thanks for playing!

There is nothing more precious than "triggered" snowflakes attempting to make up their own version of reality.

 

[MikeK]

Here it's almost impossible find black men (tourists excluded)

Anyways being with blacks it's not seen very well in Vietnam...uhm...I think my parents, relatives and friend wouldn't be so happy if I had a black boyfriend View attachment 125514

Things work in a different way for white men; I know some girls here engaged with white men (mostly Australian men).

I think it's just something that has to do with our culture

I think you're absolutely right. It is cultural and my observation over the years holds that Asians are inclined to avoid ethnic mingling and tend to maintain the solidarity of their ethnic grouping. I think there is nothing wrong with this and it certainly does not inhabit the category of what we Westerners think of as "racism."

Here in America, for example, our Chinese populations are inclined to form and inhabit Chinatowns, and they keep mainly to themselves. The Chinese are decent, law-abiding, intelligent, peaceful and highly productive people whom I think of as valuable Americans. And I do not regard their tendency to keep to themselves and avoid racial mixing as "racism." They value their ethnic characteristics and heritage and wish to preserve them -- and there is nothing wrong with that.

If anyone disagrees with me about this I would be interested in knowing specifically why.

 

[miketx]

Here it's almost impossible find black men (tourists excluded)

Anyways being with blacks it's not seen very well in Vietnam...uhm...I think my parents, relatives and friend wouldn't be so happy if I had a black boyfriend View attachment 125514

Things work in a different way for white men; I know some girls here engaged with white men (mostly Australian men).

I think it's just something that has to do with our culture

I think you're absolutely right. It is cultural and my observation over the years holds that Asians are inclined to avoid ethnic mingling and tend to maintain the solidarity of their ethnic grouping. I think there is nothing wrong with this and it certainly does not inhabit the category of what we Westerners think of as "racism."

Here in America, for example, our Chinese populations are inclined to form and inhabit Chinatowns, and they keep mainly to themselves. The Chinese are decent, law-abiding, intelligent, peaceful and highly productive people whom I think of as valuable Americans. And I do not regard their tendency to keep to themselves and avoid racial mixing as "racism." They value their ethnic characteristics and heritage and wish to preserve them -- and there is nothing wrong with that.

If anyone disagrees with me about this I would be interested in knowing specifically why.

It's only bad and racist if whites try to preserve their heritage.

 

[MikeK]

I don't want to be naive Mike.

[...]

I know, Esther. I was just teasing you and I apologize if it came across as serious and critical.

 

[bodecea]

People need to learn what the word "racism" actually means. If you hate someone just because of their ethnicity - that is racism. If you refuse to allow your children to date someone because of their ethnicity (or other factors), that is not "racism".

I have two daughters and I've already made it painfully clear to my wife (my girls are still too little to discuss this stuff with) that our girls will not be marrying an Asian, or an African American, or a Mexican, etc. They can be friends with them, they are welcome in our home, etc. but dating/marriage is a whole 'nother level. She completely agrees with me.

racism is thinking any one was is inherently superior to others. If you are white and won't allow your kids to date someone who's black, it is because you don't see blacks as equals. It is because you are a racist.

Well that's a cute progressive snowflake battle-cry, but it simply isn't true. It has nothing to do with superiority or inferiority. Thanks for playing!

There is nothing more precious than "triggered" snowflakes attempting to make up their own version of reality.

You mean like the Father in the OP?

 

[MikeK]

Here it's almost impossible find black men (tourists excluded)

Anyways being with blacks it's not seen very well in Vietnam...uhm...I think my parents, relatives and friend wouldn't be so happy if I had a black boyfriend View attachment 125514

Things work in a different way for white men; I know some girls here engaged with white men (mostly Australian men).

I think it's just something that has to do with our culture

I think you're absolutely right. It is cultural and my observation over the years holds that Asians are inclined to avoid ethnic mingling and tend to maintain the solidarity of their ethnic grouping. I think there is nothing wrong with this and it certainly does not inhabit the category of what we Westerners think of as "racism."

Here in America, for example, our Chinese populations are inclined to form and inhabit Chinatowns, and they keep mainly to themselves. The Chinese are decent, law-abiding, intelligent, peaceful and highly productive people whom I think of as valuable Americans. And I do not regard their tendency to keep to themselves and avoid racial mixing as "racism." They value their ethnic characteristics and heritage and wish to preserve them -- and there is nothing wrong with that.

If anyone disagrees with me about this I would be interested in knowing specifically why.

It's only bad and racist if whites try to preserve their heritage.

Sarcasm is hard to detect in written form, so you should use the appropriate smiley -- unless your message is serious.

 

[miketx]

I am serious. If you can't see that then perhaps you aren't really watching. Now, I have no problem with other races wanting to preserve their heritage, but if whites do, they get slammed for being racist all the time.

 

[GHook93]

Dad's racist rant when daughter took black friend to prom | Daily Mail Online

LMAO! He is 100% correct BUT if he had been a better influence in his daughters life then she would have NEVER wanted to go with a non white to the prom! This is why you must ALWAYS be in your kids lives not just a part time parent.

Better than a redneck


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[GHook93]

Dad's racist rant when daughter took black friend to prom | Daily Mail Online

LMAO! He is 100% correct BUT if he had been a better influence in his daughters life then she would have NEVER wanted to go with a non white to the prom! This is why you must ALWAYS be in your kids lives not just a part time parent.

When are you whites gonna admit it....your daughters, your wives, your women all want a taste of black men......face it!!

Sure sure....you keep thinking that. Funny thing is I married a woman who never even saw a negro until she moved south with me and was disgusted from the beginning. Got me a good one! Only brainwashed whites want to race mix...my kids have a natural disgust of nonwhites I just encourage it.

I call bullshit.[emoji108]


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[MikeK]

Does the father know that this boy is a bad egg? Or is he just assuming because he is black? That's textbook racism.

The simple fact is there are two distinctly different types of Blacks. There are decent, law-abiding, peaceful and productive Black people -- and there are n!ggers. Unfortunately the general conduct of the n!gger category operates to shape the impression many Whites have of all Blacks, which is they are arrogantly aggressive, think of themselves as "slick," they contemptuously despise Whites and will exploit any opportunity to harm them.

So while the average White father might not be innately racist his disposition toward his daughter dating Black boys is likely based on fear of the unknown and simple caution.

 

[MikeK]

I am serious. If you can't see that then perhaps you aren't really watching. Now, I have no problem with other races wanting to preserve their heritage, but if whites do, they get slammed for being racist all the time.

Again, sarcasm is hard to detect in written form.

 

[miketx]

I am serious. If you can't see that then perhaps you aren't really watching. Now, I have no problem with other races wanting to preserve their heritage, but if whites do, they get slammed for being racist all the time.

Again, sarcasm is hard to detect in written form.

What part of "I'm serious" cannot make past your head?

 

[Carl in Michigan]

And I do not regard their tendency to keep to themselves and avoid racial mixing as "racism." They value their ethnic characteristics and heritage and wish to preserve them -- and there is nothing wrong with that.

But it's "wrong" for the white race to preserve their identity and culture -- most believe that anyway.

 

[Carl in Michigan]

So while the average White father might not be innately racist his disposition toward his daughter dating Black boys is likely based on fear of the unknown and simple caution.

Or based on simple observation.
And the desire to have grandchildren that carry on family/racial characteristics.
And the desire to see his daughter have a reasonable chance for a successful life.

 

[Unkotare]

I am serious. If you can't see that then perhaps you aren't really watching. Now, I have no problem with other races wanting to preserve their heritage, but if whites do, they get slammed for being racist all the time.

Here it's almost impossible find black men (tourists excluded)

Anyways being with blacks it's not seen very well in Vietnam...uhm...I think my parents, relatives and friend wouldn't be so happy if I had a black boyfriend View attachment 125514

Things work in a different way for white men; I know some girls here engaged with white men (mostly Australian men).

I think it's just something that has to do with our culture

I think you're absolutely right. It is cultural and my observation over the years holds that Asians are inclined to avoid ethnic mingling and tend to maintain the solidarity of their ethnic grouping. I think there is nothing wrong with this and it certainly does not inhabit the category of what we Westerners think of as "racism."

Here in America, for example, our Chinese populations are inclined to form and inhabit Chinatowns, and they keep mainly to themselves. The Chinese are decent, law-abiding, intelligent, peaceful and highly productive people whom I think of as valuable Americans. And I do not regard their tendency to keep to themselves and avoid racial mixing as "racism." They value their ethnic characteristics and heritage and wish to preserve them -- and there is nothing wrong with that.

If anyone disagrees with me about this I would be interested in knowing specifically why.

It's only bad and racist if whites try to preserve their heritage.

 

[Marion Morrison]

Welp, she knew how daddy felt and went against his wishes.

I bet she's a legal adult and he's not obligated to pay for anything for her.

She can say byebye to her phone and insurance.

 

[Vastator]

Maybe her father is overreacting...I mean she just told him she wants to go to the prom with that guy, not she wants to marry him

Esther,

Don't be naive.

I don't want to be naive Mike
The simple fact she wants to go to prom with that guy doesn't mean they're engaged.
I did check Wikipedia and they say prom is just "a semi-formal dance or gathering of high school students". Nothing more.
So you can go to prom with a friend View attachment 125511

How would your parents feel if you went on a date with black man? How would your friends feel? Do you think their reaction would be different if it were a white man? an Asian?

Here it's almost impossible find black men (tourists excluded)
Anyways being with blacks it's not seen very well in Vietnam...uhm...I think my parents, relatives and friend wouldn't be so happy if I had a black boyfriend View attachment 125514
Things work in a different way for white men; I know some girls here engaged with white men (mostly Australian men).
I think it's just something that has to do with our culture

It's not just your culture.

 

[Carl in Michigan]

Welp, she knew how daddy felt and went against his wishes.

I bet she's a legal adult and he's not obligated to pay for anything for her.

She can say byebye to her phone and insurance.

They BOTH have the right to the decisions they made, but IF the father's goal was to lead her in the right direction, he couldn't have done worse. He drove his daughter away and will likely lose her forever. He handled itall wrong.

 

[ricechickie]

Funny, what I want for my daughter (and son) isn't a specific race, but someone who is good to them, and good for them. I had that. I was blessed in that regard.