Modbert
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- Sep 2, 2008
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I can deny it.
I have no problem with the mother raising her daughter Jewish.
What bothers me is that it seems that the mother almost always gets the final say in these kinds of things and the father's wishes are always second fiddle if not third fiddle behind the mother's parents wishes.
I'm sure it is not always like that, but it sure as hell seems that way.
Immie
As a guy, I know exactly what you're talking about. Especially when it comes to the issue of visiting rights. However, if the mother was the person who had primary care, then her wishes should be followed primarily.
That's the thing, who has primary care? Who's the one who is raising them the majority of the time? And things such as these should go down to the parent they are living with, who they are growing up with. Not the one whom they visit with. From what I understand, mothers usually have primary care unless they request otherwise or are just so fucked up beyond belief.
It can suck sometimes, but that's the way it goes.
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