evenflow1969
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- Jul 17, 2016
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I did not want to call her a liar in open court. I had my attorney convey to her attorney that there was some really damning evidence that existed. The assault charges were dropped at second pretrial. As far as the divorce went she was an extreme control freak. I gave her what she wanted and let her choke on it. She had control of all the rental properties and the primary residence for four years. She could not keep up with maintenance and payments. I was secretly making deals with the lenders to make everything whole. When she got foreclosure notices I offered to give her all the money that was frozen and I would take the property. Of course she thought I was taking on debt and properties that were no longer in my control. So she hopped on the deal. My divorce was over in about 90 days after that. It would not have worked had I not had a hard money lender to do the rehabs with because my credit got burned right along with hers due to all the late pays. I also had to stop charter fishing for a year so I could rehab and sell the properties in the time frame I had to agree to with the lenders.Not to make your word gospel, but I have been working with the Crown to minimize her situation, been coy about evjdence and refused to sign something tha would have hurt her. If you were me, would you have taken the same approach? I'm curious
PS. If it had came down to her or me taking it on the chin. I would have chose her. In the long run I am in the better position to help my children and grandchildren than she is and those wiling to lie to get what they want really only care about themselves. You have a duty and obligation to be there for your kids and grandchildren over your obligation to her.
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