Asclepias
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- Aug 3, 2013
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Typically I make decisions for myself. I thought most people did the same.English isnt plain. it has many dialects. Black people speak a different dialect of english and your witty remark would have been construed as an insult without the benefit of me seeing your body language and tone.Thats pretty dumb to assume someone is going to understand your meaning when it means something completely different to them. When dealing with whites I dont say certain things because I wouldnt want them to take it the wrong way. You should learn that type of respect or you are going to wind up a victim of a misunderstanding.It was a dumb comment that would have gotten your ass beat if I had of heard you say that to a Black woman. I dont need to hear a white perspective you need to be careful about what you say. That very easily could have been construed as a sexual comment. The fact you dont get it tells me you live in lala land and have no desire to understand that your witty remarks dont mean the same thing to other people. When I would want your white perspective I would ask you for it.
Perhaps you need to understand that my comments don't mean what you assume they mean.
Perhaps your assumption that you have a right to tell me to be careful about what I say, or you will kick my ass means that you are the one that is not prepared to understand other people.
Perhaps I don't want to live in a land where my ass in in danger because some racist black person is going to attack me if they find some minor offense in what I do.
You ever been arrested for attacking some white guy for no reason?
If I said that I felt I had the right to beat any black man that didn't show the proper respect to a white woman, you would have no problem seeing that I was a racist bigot.
Sound familar?
You are demonstrating that exact mindset.
YOu sure that's the way you want to be?
I do have a right to tell you. No one is going to stop me from doing so. You are free to disregard it but you have my permission to do so.
If you dont want to live in a land like that then move somewhere that you are safe and can say what you want without fear of facing the consequences.
No. I have never attacked a white guy for no reason. Its always and only been because of racism.
No I wouldnt see you as a racist bigot. I would actually believe you had some balls and willing to stand up for a woman.
No it doesnt sound familiar.
Yes I am sure I want to be that way. To me there is nothing more precious than a Black woman except for a Black child.
I was speaking plain English and quoting a common tv commercial, of the time. For some random black guy to use that as a justification to "kick my ass" is just that black guy being a violent asshole.
You have a right to talk to me. You do not have a right to "kick my ass".
No. I think I will stay right here. If you have a problem with me living my life the way I want to, I will deal with that, and you when the time comes.
ONly for racism? Considering that you see my "rolling a rollo to my friend" as justification for violence, I have no faith in your judgement.
THe logic I just describe was that of the classic lynching. Are you sure you support that?
You sure you want to emulate the violence of the lynch mobs of the old South?
BTW, how is that violence working out for the black community? Really moving you guys forward?
BTW Hispanics are the group that are really growing in this country, not whites, not blacks. You think they are going to walk on eggshells around you for the rest of your life?
Someday, you'll be old. And the young violent punks will be brown...
Glad you agree I have a right to tell you i would have kicked your ass.
If you will stay right here then why did you bring up that you didnt want to live in a place that you had to show respect? Did you think that would make me feel guilty or something?
Yes only for racism. Your faith is none of my concern. You asked and I told you. Perhaps you shouldn't ask questions you dont like the answer to.
Violence against people that lack respect even after being told something is disrespectful is not a vice in my book.
Violence in the Black community has nothing to do with your issues.
Hispanics also feel the same. Thats why they show respect for others and have a problem with whites such as yourself.
Everyone gets old. You adapt.
You are responsible for deciding that an innocent comment is justification for you to commit violence. It is your choice to be a violent criminal.
I am giving you notice that you do not get to define this land. It is mine as much as it is yours. YOu do not get to define the rules as "rolling a rollo to my friend" as just cause for violence.
Just because you assume it to be "racism" does not mean that is the truth. The violence you cause in on you, not the alleged "racist" who you felt you had a right to assault.
Your book? LOL.
Agreed, violence in the black community has nothing to do with my issues. I'm not the one who is stating that he will attack people for no reason.
You sure you aren't open to the idea that you might be doing something wrong? I've known blacks who have died for no reason.
Oh, sorry, no reason "in my book".
No. I'm pretty sure Hispanics aren't going to give you a pass on attacking them for no reason. Some stupid whites might. Browns? NO.
And no, you don't adapt. If you want to turn this land into a violent hellhole, someday you'll be the victim. If you're lucky enough to get that old.
Some day you won't be up on the latest cultural nuance, and some asshole will decide that you didn't show someone enough respect and you'll get your ass kicked.
Noted. However, I dont pay attention to people that tell me I cant define my world.
Truth is subjective. Your truth has no bearing on mine. Thats where white people frequently get confused.
Yes my book.
Who said I was closed? I dont mind dying for certain things. I've known whites that have died for dumb reasons like lack of respect.
I dont attack people for "no reason" no matter the race. That would be dumb. I'm not asking for a pass. I'm informing you of the consequences.
When that day comes I will be taught a lesson. The difference is I will learn which seems to be something you have a problem with.