martybegan
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Utility is usually what forces gender roles, social norms, relationship standards.There hasn't been in the last 40 years that I've been playing John Appleseed...
In a technologically primitive agrarian society without birth control, firm gender roles make sense. Women are more or less constantly pregnant, can feed their children with their bodies and have less physical strength and endurance. It makes sense to put women into a caregiver role and men in a hunter/gatherer or farm worker role. And so it was almost universally so.
But in a technologically advanced society with birth control...firm gender roles make less sense. As a backhoe can be run equally effectively by a man or a woman. Women only have children when they want to and are no longer constantly pregnant. And technologically advanced societies tend to be more risk averse and compliance rewarding. Both of which women tend to do. So in a level playing field they tend to flourish.
Ergo, gender roles break down.
Firm gender identity roles, sexual taboos, relationship standards, even military standards tend to go the same way. Upheld to the extent that they are useful. And abandoned when they aren't.
The problem is societies where gender roles are breaking down are also failing to reproduce themselves.
Reproduction itself is often driven by necessity. If infant mortality is high, lifespans short and human muscle the primary source of labor.....having large numbers of children make sense. But if infant mortality is low, life spans long and technology makes human muscle less important.....having large numbers of children makes less sense.
Utility is the driver in most cases.
We seem to be taking the good stuff of equality and ignoring the repercussions of not meeting population replacement numbers while doing it.
Its the diminishing utility that is driving most of these changes. The reduction in gender roles is a product, not a cause.
We aren't talking families with 7 or 8 kids, the problem is the best educated among us, and the people that support the whole concept of equality aren't the ones reproducing in sufficient numbers to maintain population, never mind about expanding it.
Its not conceptions about 'equality' that drive fewer children. You're placing causation in the wrong place. Its the utility of having children. The utility is vastly diminished over what it was in a technologically primitive society with high infant mortality, and short lives.
With lower utility comes lower reproduction. Equality ideals, reductions in marriages, reductions in gender roles, etc.....these are all symptoms of the reduction in utility.
Well people better figure out that the utility is in continuing concepts and beliefs on a certain way of life, or all the "symptoms" go away when less enlightened immigrants make up more and more of the population.