Man Sends Wife Spreadsheet Of All Her Excuses Not To Have Sex

[Luddly Neddite]

Ashley Madison.

Whatever happened to those screwy commercials?

The dorky guy talking about saving your marriage while repeating, over and over, the website where you could go to cheat.

Very funny and VERY transparent.

 

[Esmeralda]

Dude, she's just not that into you

Bingo. This is the answer. No one makes up excuses in order to avoid making love if they really like it and their partner.

 

[Delta4Embassy]

In fairness to women, our excuses aren't any better. GF years back often wanted to, but at the time Iw as big into Everquest and I used excuses of "Can't get together tonight, my guild wants to raid."

Problem in relationships is often that we come to take people's continued presence for granted. Don't do that! No stigma to divorce any more so people aren't gonna put up with that sort of thing indefinitely. And if not married it's even easier to dump your ass.

 

[Darkwind]

In fairness to women, our excuses aren't any better. GF years back often wanted to, but at the time Iw as big into Everquest and I used excuses of "Can't get together tonight, my guild wants to raid."

What?

Dood...give back your Man card......right now!

 

[R.D.]

Dude, she's just not that into you

Bingo. This is the answer. No one makes up excuses in order to avoid making love if they really like it and their partner.

Holy cow...did you pc edit husband out of that???

 

[Esmeralda]

In fairness to women, our excuses aren't any better. GF years back often wanted to, but at the time Iw as big into Everquest and I used excuses of "Can't get together tonight, my guild wants to raid."

I don't think that is 'making up excuses;' that is allowing something else to become more important to you than your girlfriend and your love for her.

 

[Esmeralda]

Dude, she's just not that into you

Bingo. This is the answer. No one makes up excuses in order to avoid making love if they really like it and their partner.

Holy cow...did you pc edit husband out of that???

Some people, including heteros, have long term relationships, years long and living together, without getting married. Lots of people, actually. So it does not necessarily mean that your partner is your husband or wife.

The supposed husband and wife in the OP are in their 20's. Being in your 20's and not interested in sex with your partner? Highly unlikely unless you are with the wrong person.

 

[Delta4Embassy]

In fairness to women, our excuses aren't any better. GF years back often wanted to, but at the time Iw as big into Everquest and I used excuses of "Can't get together tonight, my guild wants to raid."

I don't think that is 'making up excuses;' that is allowing something else to become more important to you than your girlfriend and your love for her.

In hindsight, I realize now it was just me being selfish. Using her at my convenience. ...Until she dumped my ass.

 

[crpravens82]

"Non-Verbal"

 

[whitehall]

He makes up spread sheets about their sex life or lack of it and he thinks she is the problem?

 

[Vandalshandle]

I'm glad someone posted this. I have been wondering for a long time just who ended up with my first wife....

 

[ClosedCaption]

He makes up spread sheets about their sex life or lack of it and he thinks she is the problem?

Again, He is the problem? Explain

 

[Esmeralda]

He makes up spread sheets about their sex life or lack of it and he thinks she is the problem?

Again, He is the problem? Explain

He may or may not be the problem; most likely he would not be the whole problem. They have issues though. It is ridiculous to think that if your wife refuses to have sex with you 27 times, one day after another, that it is her that is the problem. You have to ask yourself why she doesn't want to do something she should enjoy and look forward to.

So, to ask your question but in reverse: explain why she is the problem?

 

[ClosedCaption]

He makes up spread sheets about their sex life or lack of it and he thinks she is the problem?

Again, He is the problem? Explain

He may or may not be the problem; most likely he would not be the whole problem. They have issues though. It is ridiculous to think that if your wife refuses to have sex with you 27 times, one day after another, that it is her that is the problem. You have to ask yourself why she doesn't want to do something she should enjoy and look forward to.

So, to ask your question but in reverse: explain why she is the problem?

She has the vagina and the legs that open. Pretty simple

I have to take it back tho...This is his fault for dealing with this. He needs a side chick or something. What she wont another will.

 

[Ava]

Man Sends Wife Spreadsheet Of All Her Excuses Not To Have Sex

If I were married to a man with whom I wanted to fore-go sex, I would be divorcing him. Period!

 

[R.D.]

He makes up spread sheets about their sex life or lack of it and he thinks she is the problem?

Again, He is the problem? Explain

Ok. I'll try.

He's got a woman he can't please who doesn't want him anymore and tries to humiliate or guilt her into submission...and fails

 

[Darkwind]

Again, He is the problem? Explain

He may or may not be the problem; most likely he would not be the whole problem. They have issues though. It is ridiculous to think that if your wife refuses to have sex with you 27 times, one day after another, that it is her that is the problem. You have to ask yourself why she doesn't want to do something she should enjoy and look forward to.

So, to ask your question but in reverse: explain why she is the problem?

She has the vagina and the legs that open. Pretty simple

I have to take it back tho...This is his fault for dealing with this. He needs a side chick or something. What she wont another will.

I overheard a conversation once that I am quite certain I was not to hear. It was between My mother and My sister and it blew Me away because...well, who thinks their mother thinks that way?

Anyway....As I was walking by, I heard her say to My sister....."Its your body, but understand something about a man. If you won't have sex with him, he will go elsewhere for it."

Given enough time, I think this is true. Perhaps its time for....ah....this guy to move on.

 

[ClosedCaption]

He makes up spread sheets about their sex life or lack of it and he thinks she is the problem?

Again, He is the problem? Explain

Ok. I'll try.

He's got a woman he can't please who doesn't want him anymore and tries to humiliate or guilt her into submission...and fails

How bout...She's lazy. I mean does that even come into the equation? Wont shower? Wont fuck?

 

[Swagger]

You just know that he made-up the (supposed) "I'm too sore from last night" excuse.

What a lad.

 

[Andylusion]

As a Christian, we are supposed to give ourselves to our spouse, in fulfilling our marital obligation.

As a practical matter, people who routinely avoid sex with their spouse, often end up with unhappy marriages. The bitterness and lack of affection, will spill over into other things. People getting angry in their marriages over really dumb problems, in many cases in actually the result of the lack of affection in the bedroom. It's hard to be bitter over stupid issues, with someone you are routinely extremely intimate with. Not so much, when you are rarely intimate with them.

The other side, is that at some point, if the husband doesn't ditch the wife, he'll eventually switch off. He'll just shut down. This is why 20% of all married couples, live in sexless marriages.

Now of course there are other factors, like physical problems, that prevent sex. But generally, when a girl shuts down her husband enough times, he'll switch off. Then later in life, after the kids are largely out of the house, or gone, suddenly she wakes up sexually again, but he couldn't care less. He's been switched off for so long, it's not even on his radar.

This is why you see movies like Hope Springs, where the disconnected husband, and the sex starved wife, desperately seeking the attention she got when they were younger.... and duh... having sex.

Where do you think the Cougar phenomenon came from? These older chicks switch back on, while their shunned husband does not.

My opinion? And this is just my opinion, so who cares what I think? I think either spouse should never turn down the other to have sex. Unless obviously, one is being abusive or, you actually are sick, or one is hooked on porn, and wants some sick twisted crap. But otherwise, you should take up your spouse every time they want sex.