ChrisL
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- Jul 24, 2014
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Hmm. So, according to some on here, my wanting my man to fantasize about ME, makes me fucked up, but getting off on abusing another human being is not.![]()
No, it just shows your proclivity for saying others are fucked up because they don't do things your way.
NO it isn't. It is saying that people who get off on abusing another human being or being abused by another human being are fucked up, and they are.
You poor thing, you've never been spanked have you?![]()
A "spanking" is not abuse. Tying people up and abusing them to the point where they need a "safety word" OTH is abuse. A simple spanking is NOT considered BDSM. It is MUCH more than just playful spanking or hair pulling. It is inflicting pain and injury on another human being and enjoying it to the point of orgasm.