That's why abusers have been able to use "she wanted it" as a get out of jail free card for decades.A "spanking" is not abuse. Tying people up and abusing them to the point where they need a "safety word" OTH is abuse. A simple spanking is NOT considered BDSM. It is MUCH more than just playful spanking or hair pulling. It is inflicting pain and injury on another human being and enjoying it to the point of orgasm.
So put you down as "not kinky"
weren't you in another thread the other day chastising me about judging someone who wrote that they walk around naked in front of their children? See, I consider that child abuse.
Hey, if you want to discuss that then stay in that thread. Don't bring your issues here. Walking around naked is NOT abuse.
I only brought it into this thread to show your hypocrisy.
In fact it's worse than hypocrisy because if a woman chooses to allow herself to be "abused" by a man, she's consented, why do you care what they do if it's consensual? On the other hand, I doubt that anyone who walks around naked in front of their children has asked them if it's okay with them. I can't think of a single child who wants to see their parents naked.
And of course children can't consent anyway.
It is not, you nut job. Walking around nude is not abusive. BDSM is using sex as a guise for abusing people because you like hurting people.
Even if true, if they find someone who consents to being "abused" its frankly none of your business. Land of the free and all that.