ABikerSailor
Diamond Member
Sex is something that should be reserved for marriage. That's not just a Christian view point, it's just common sense. Think about it. How many problems would disappear if everyone waited until they were married, or at LEAST until they made the commitment to marry. How many lives have been ruined because someone couldn't wait? How many babies have been murdered in the womb because of it?
That is from not using protection, in most instances, I would think. Smart people know how to protect themselves against pregnancy and disease.
The only prevention that is one hundred percent is abstinence. BTW. The failure rate of condoms is 12%. Did you know that? And the simple fact is that most don't use any kind of protection. So where does that leave us? We have become a morally degenerate society. We encourage kids to have sex, then murder their babies before they are born. No. The best policy is abstinence. You can't refute that.
I can and I do refute that. That is an unrealistic expectation for MOST people.
What is unrealistic about it? If children are raised with the right moral guidelines, they will wait until they are married. I was raised in a Christian home. I have three sisters who were virgins when they were married. I guess to people like you, that's unnatural. And is it any more unrealistic than expecting two teenagers to use protection? You see. Their is a little something most people don't even know exists. It's called morality. It works. You should try it sometime.
I'm not a Christian and I don't think of sex as "immoral" but as a natural human way to show affection and intimacy.
I think of it as a fun way to enjoy another person's company. And, I don't really attach much of an emotional response to it, because it's more biological than anything else.
If I like someone, and we get along and they ask if I wanna, 98 percent of the time, I'll say "sure". The other 2 percent, I'm either very sick or physically incapacitated and can't do anything.
And sex is only "immoral" if the dogma of your particular belief system restricts you to that.