Seawytch
Information isnt Advocacy
You may not be able to help who you find attractive, but it is a FACT that you choose to act on that particular attraction. And yes, I believe you can control your sexual urges, or there would be a whole lot more rapes in the world.
But why shouldn't we act upon our natural inclinations? We are doing it with other consenting adults after all. I'm not attracted to men and am attracted to women. Always have been. You want me to put aside my natural desires just so you won't feel icky if you see two men or two women holding hands?