- Apr 17, 2009
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The situation they were leaving was worse.If a parent is making the difficult choice to leave a horrible situation, they are not a bad parent.
If they are going to subject their child to a horrible situation, just to escape another horrible situation, what has changed for the child, Coyote?
(Chuckles)
No.
What is worse is not having a relationship with your parent. Not having the guidance of a parent. I should know, I lived without knowing my mom or dad for the better part of a decade before my father chose to come back and atone for himself. My grandmother has more than picked up the slack, but there's always that wanting there, that regret of not knowing or being loved by the people who brought you into this world.
And I will never look kindly on parents who do these kinds of things to their children. Not ever.
I can understand your perspective, given that. Mine is different. I would probably do whatever I had to to save my children...there are worse things then foster care.