It's called tough love RW. It's like when the mother kicks her baby birds out of the nest. Sure, it's tough going for a while, but as time goes on, it's the best for the birds so they can survive on their own.
Similar analogy Ray
But just like little birdies need to be taught to fly, there is no such thing as self made men.
Ergo, here we are yet again, caught betwixt the concept of handout/handup
THAT is issue
~S~