Is there any citation or published evidence for the claim in the first sentence?Transgendering had never been a problem. Okay, normal people will never see the transgendered as normal or anything other than freakish, but it was a huge shrug. . .UNTIL. . .they got in our faces, started actively grooming the kids, forced themselves into women's sports, and otherwise interfered with our rights to a normal, safer, more private culture.
So we went from a live and let live culture to one in which a tiny percentage are trying to force everybody else to accommodate whatever they want no matter what detriment, risk, or harm that might do.
Some places offer single room unisex bathrooms and that pretty much takes care of everybody. But for large venues that need to accommodate large numbers of people, biological males need to use the men's facilities so that women are not put at higher risk or have their privacy violated. Men might be uncomfortable with a female looking guy in the restroom with them, but they are not at physical risk from him.
Ditch the grooming curriculum in schools, the drag queen shows for kids, get biological males out of women's sports, and don't expect unreasonable accommodations, and transgendering will go back to being a huge shrug again.