Disobedience of my commands whether a mom or supervisor or manager or owner is one thing. I like to think I am able to put things into sufficient perspective to respond appropriately to any such incidents.Let me ask you a question if you told your child not to have any cookies until after dinner and they had one anyways, would you be upset with them and scold them for it or just simply shrug it off?
I am not Mom or supervisor or manager or owner of any of my gay friends or my straight friends and have no right to command them in anything. And I certainly am not God. I ask forgiveness for my sins and for direction in what God wants from me, wants for me. And unless people are harming themselves and/or others, I believe God wants me to live and let live and leave any scolding to Him.