Billo_Really
Litre of the Band
My point is, I usually say what I feel I have to say at the time. I don't normally consider my social status when saying them. The exception is when I'm at work. I don't talk at work, like I do on my own time. But I do talk online, like I do in real life.Do you use that kind of languge in real life? Toward people just because you disagree with them or don't like them? Do you call women the 'c' word to their face just because you don't like them or what they say? Do you call blacks the 'n' word to their face just because you can?
I don't actually pay much attention to your posts, but I don't remember them being like that, so maybe this situation doesn't apply to you as much as it does to others.
When I use vulgar language, it is not because I don't like someone, or I disagree with what they said, it has more to do with me finding what they said (or the way they said it) as being offensive or obscene. My posts are usually in proportion to the posts I am responding to.
I have called women the c-word because of what they said or did, never because I just didn't like them. It always depends on the gravity of their actions. I'm not saying my response is okay, I'm just explaining my response.
Yes, I've used the n-word in front of blacks just because I could. I didn't grow up in a very nice neighborhood. Me and my basketball buddy would go down to the local park and be the only two white guys there. We played there 3 times a week for 2 years. But in that situation, it's like everybody knew everybody. It wasn't like, "OMG look at all these black people!" It was more like, "Hey Henry, what's up?" "Carmichael, you need two?" "O'Neil, you got next? How's Cornell?"